So apparently if there is a bunch of people here with low Self-Confidence with the ladies and such. So lets bounce ideas off of one another.
Who wants to go first?
Self-Confidence boosters
So apparently if there is a bunch of people here with low Self-Confidence with the ladies and such. So lets bounce ideas off of one another.
Who wants to go first?
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If you cater to what you think others want you to be, you will never have self confidence
Just do you and shake the haters
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There, but for the grace of God, goes John Bradford
My aim, then, was to whip the rebels, to humble their pride, to follow them to their inmost recesses, and make them fear and dread us. Fear is the beginning of wisdom.
I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation.
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+1for STFS. Be a Hungarian Hussar (Like me!!!!). Don't care what anyone thinks.Originally Posted by Strike For The South
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Stop asking for advice on internet forums.
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Pwnt.
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Heres a better idea.
Stop posting altogether.
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What's with the animosity above?
Anyway, I echo Strike's advice, you be calm and be yourself, and you can't really go wrong. Don't worry about being rejected, because it will happen to everyone at some point.
A lot of the time these people that seem like players in fact only really get one acceptance for every 10 rejections.
At the end of the day politics is just trash compared to the Gospel.
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Why does it always come back to women with you?
There, but for the grace of God, goes John Bradford
My aim, then, was to whip the rebels, to humble their pride, to follow them to their inmost recesses, and make them fear and dread us. Fear is the beginning of wisdom.
I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation.
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idk, early mid-life crisis?
Wait, no... the OP specifically talked about women, I knew I posted that for a reason.
At the end of the day politics is just trash compared to the Gospel.
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I could say something extremely cliche' so that's exactly what I'm going to do.
Words and phrases like "self-confidence" are just that, they don't really don't mean anything if you don't know what it is. Get out of the house, do things you like (that don't involve the computer), find meaning in your existence, do something to promote that meaningfulness with others who share that desire, and everything else will work itself out.
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WHY YOU GOTTA BE LIKE THAT SFTS?
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At the end of the day politics is just trash compared to the Gospel.
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That's sounds good advice for everyone Pever.
What animosity?
No sense in being a player. Besides, once the girl finds out she being played, she just going to ditch you and you going to have to try all over again.
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People are stupid. Ignore them and do whatever theyou feel like.
- Four Horsemen of the Presence
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Wear clothes you feel comfortable with. Everybody is insure about him/her-self, the ones claiming they aren't probably all the more.
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I just wear my leather jacket (real one) and blue jeans and an ice shirt and colonge and that's it. I go in fancy enough because I don't want to look like a bum (like a lot of my fellow students look like they came out of a drug house). I don't care what anyone thinks of me at this point.
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I just chill out and look relaxed. You don't even have to move a muscle.
Ja mata, TosaInu. You will forever be remembered.
Proud
Been to:
Swords Made of Letters - 1938. The war is looming in France - and Alexandre Reythier does not have much time left to protect his country. A novel set before the war.
A Painted Shield of Honour - 1313. Templar Knights in France are in grave danger. Can they be saved?
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stop being a *****
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Finding confidence is about realising that the opinions other people have about you don't really matter; if they don't like you, who cares? Is it really that big a deal?
Why should you tailor yourself to their requirements? Wear the clothes you like, listen to the music you enjoy and live life however you want... it's their loss, not yours!
"Blacker than a moonless night. Hotter and more bitter than Hell itself… that is coffee."
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Don't be a hater, man. I like this kid, and I like it when people take advantage of the frontroom's tome of combined knowledge.
But when a girl looks at me, and smiles and doesn't look away... Ooooooh, I love it when that happens.
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Hey I might need some advice too.
Not too concerned about womens but I do want to raise my confidence.
The main problem seems to be my horrible fashion sense and weak looking body (yet fat on my stomach)
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You and me both buddy
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Situps. Crunches. Barbells.
Lazy. You.
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Not debating that.
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Oh. Ok, then.
Peace.
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Do it, and do it well. Dont be afraid of opinions. It worksPeople are stupid. Ignore them and do whatever the
TosaInu shall never be forgotten.
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Hit the lawyer, delete your gym and facebook up.
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Done all that. Main problem seems to be slow effects, leading to lack of will to continue
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Follow my advice.
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@ ACIN
What would you advice this skinny chubby fellow?
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