Risky. Some girls don't like the approach from behind.Quote:
Originally Posted by Centurio Nixalsverdrus
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Risky. Some girls don't like the approach from behind.Quote:
Originally Posted by Centurio Nixalsverdrus
Though it's not the case for all woman, it seems from my experience many like being treated like crap. Maybe it's the effort to get the guy that makes them like it more and more. Being only 18, I think it's also possible it's a maturity thing. While some girls mature, I think most woman realize a sweet devoted man who gives them affection is the way to go.
As of now hooahguy, I have the same problem. I will not say I'm 'needy', but I have no problem devoting more than the good amount of time and energy. I've learned to just cool it. Keep excitement to yourself and treat them normally. Hard for nice guys, but not impossible. Good luck.
We nice guys must always suffer for our admiration for the girl race. :no:Quote:
Originally Posted by Alexanderofmacedon
Until they mature, I hope.Quote:
Originally Posted by Centurio Nixalsverdrus
hum happened to me once...I had this crush with someone for 2 years or so, so when I finally I made my move, I was already in the "Friend zone" or sort of, so she gave me a plain no .Quote:
Originally Posted by hooahguy
just... erase your cassette :smash:
Forget what happened, clean your mind just ignore it with all your force of will, then continue as if nothing had happened ... talk to her as if she was somone else, and if an akward silence comes... just keep talking, you'll be friends in no time :yes: (you might need time...time heals every wound)
Oh my. :laugh4:Quote:
Originally Posted by Craterus
Good luck King Henry V, your Uni sounds similar to mine. So damn hard to get the time or space to get into a conversation with anyone.
And hooahguy, you have to move on. If you don't I'll fly over there and make you move on. :wink2:
lol. you want to come over and get into my mind? kinda hard....
Well, hooahguy, moving on would probably be one of the... 'wiser' decisions to make, but probably the more difficult and self harming (Mentally so), if you want to continue, you can, and I won't call you foolish.
There seems to be a slight joy I've noticed from people when they reject someone, the closer you are to them, the more joyous it is, maybe its not joy at all though, maybe they dislike going out with someone they know all ready.
Anyway, moving on is almost certainly the only thing could happen with a remotely good result. (as far a probability is concerned)
As for you King Henry V, it is not too late for you. Seize the moment, you might not get a chance like you've said again, sure theres not much time during uni, but after perhaps?
Oh I hate when anyone does that, why can't anyone just say what they think.Quote:
It seems to me like she's trying to avoid the subject without offending you.
When I try to be smart or give advice, theres a very arrogant tone in my head I simply cannot get out of there. Anyway, I shall resume normal, manically-depressed lunatic orgah soon.
its the opposite way cowboy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Abokasee
Ummm... Enlighten me on that paticular response? I do not understand.Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Unless of course you mean: If you do continue, bring at least 15 Bottles of your preferred alcohol, in which case you are absolutely correct.
If he keeps pining for her it will hurt him allot more mentally.Quote:
Originally Posted by Abokasee
Alright gentlemen, this is the current estimate of the world's population of women:
3,330,201,077
I'm assuming your in high school, so lets say women across the world in your potential dating range (not necessarily at this moment, please do nothing rash) are:
15-19: 292,128,544
and
20-24: 284,446,368
That's a lot of women for you to choose from. Get over it, and get to work. :whip: Make some little Hoohahbabies.
do bring a pack of playing cards, for love and murder....
i plan on directly confronting her on why we dont talk too much, then work with her to figure out a way to make it less akward for her to talk to me.
would that do more harm than good?
Maybe if you did it in the nude...Quote:
Originally Posted by hooahguy
that a joke? :beam:
No... :no:Quote:
Originally Posted by hooahguy
This is serious business get with it ~:mad
It sounds like you're trying to make the situation more awkward.Quote:
Originally Posted by hooahguy
maybe. but i should definitly tell her that my intentions are only to be friends, not anything else (as of now).
that should help, i guess.
If you're going to be direct and confrontational about it, why lie?
Just go the whole way and get it over with, rather than drag it out.
If she's not interested in you now, what is going to change the situation? Is she dating someone she might break up with? Are you planing on changing your personality? Lifting some weights maybe?
shes not dating anyone, and she just broke up w/ someone a month or two ago.
so i dunno....
EDIT: and ya, im working our and stuff......
when i rip that shirt off at the next dance i wont be that flat stomach anymore! :beam:
but the key is that i just want to be good friends with her, before anything else....
Alright,
How long was she dating the other person? Give her a week or so of recovery per month of relationship.
When you go in to tell her, "You simply want to be friends," use a neutral, low key social situation to talk to her about it. And don't force the issue. Start off with something light, maybe ask her how she's been, since you haven't seen her in awhile. Feel out whether she's willing to address what you actually want to talk about. Don't make her deal with it if doesn't want to.
Oh, wow. King Henry is creeping me out with his stalker-like description, as others have previously pointed out. :clown:
Anyways, this is for you, Hooah. I've never been involved in a serious relationship, so I would have to agree with others on the following advice: Move on. However, you're a little stubborn about not doing so, therefore I'll think of something else.
[previous advice removed]
EDIT: Hmm. Now that I really think about it... Perhaps you should just casually talk to her, as you previously suggested. It requires a lot of thought, though. Taking into consideration that you want to be good friends with her first, then yeah, I would approach and say something along the lines of, "Hey, how's it going? I haven't heard from you for a while!" You should ensure, though, that there's at least a week or so of no direct contact beforehand. It makes your approach seem more legitimate.
Anyways, if she says no when you eventually ask her out, then so be it. Just move on and do what I do, casually hopping from girl to girl. I can guarantee that it's really fun. :smile:
Eh, it gets boring. :coffeenews:Quote:
Originally Posted by Methuselah
Well, I'm still young and enjoying the great fruits of life! It's not boring, yet! And it wouldn't be for Hooah, he's still younger than me! :laugh4:
she dated for a month with him. technically 2 months, but one of them she was at camp. :smash:Quote:
Originally Posted by Yoyoma1910
I was actually being half-serious. :shrug: Something about trust issues.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rythmic
Thats what the booze was for!Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Anyway, normal Abokasee will resume shortly...
Age has nothing to do with it. For all choices in life their are effects and repercussions.Quote:
Originally Posted by Methuselah
i did it! i somehow got her out of my mind!
yay, im so proud!