Attractive and Tall Woman at the Counter

I've never asked a girl out for coffee, I don't think Irish men are allowed to.

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Originally Posted by johnhughthom

I've never asked a girl out for coffee, I don't think Irish men are allowed to.

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You're from Northern Ireland, aren't you?

What's the deal there, you ask girls out for "a pint and a bombed police station"?

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Some of us have a track record to back it up ;)

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And it's good to hear that you are in a happy and steady relationship :)

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Originally Posted by HoreTore

You're from Northern Ireland, aren't you?

What's the deal there, you ask girls out for "a pint and a bombed police station"?

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Listen from 2:48

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Originally Posted by Hax

And it's good to hear that you are in a happy and steady relationship :)

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Mmmm... I was engaged not long ago, had career set, baby clothes planned... And said goodbye.


So, well, I could have been. I was the one who walked away from the one girl in my life. Mainly because I got flowered up, and now deeply regret it. I found my twin soul, engaged her, my dad died in cancer, I took care of him for a year, got into a drunken/drug state... Lost her... Because I was a complete arse...


No mate, I wont give anyone advice on how to get a fully functional life. However, when it comes to asking a girl out for a date, you probably can't get a better guide than me. At least not on a gaming site.

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Originally Posted by Gelatinous Cube

I use what is affectionately referred to (by me, at least) as the Venus Fly Trap Approach. Basically, I wait for them to come to me. An interesting side-effect of this is that almost every woman i've ever dated has been certifiably, bonafide, bat-guano crazy. Whether I attract crazy women, or whether crazy women are just more likely to make the first move is still something I have yet to discern. :shrug:

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You ARE somewhat aware of gender roles, aight?

I was in before the EDIT/spoiler in your post #36.

As to the edited spoiler, how could you have one, without the other?

Again, you ARE aware of gender roles ?

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Originally Posted by Gelatinous Cube

Some men prefer women who don't need to be coached through the relationship process like some kind of crappy after-school special or MTV show. Not only do I tend to date women who come after me (as opposed to vice versa) but I also tend to date women a few years older than me. There's more than one way to skin a cat.

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There are indeed more ways than one to skin a cat, but some of them are absolute rubbish, and far from what the OP asked for, which was good advice.

EDIT: Or do you honestly think he should keep on walking by the most interesting girl he has met, in the hope that she one day will just throw herself at him?

Be real here bro.

You are not here to argue me, but to help him :)

Isn't the Frontroom the relationship advice sub forum?

Some of us like to take it from the back you got a problem with that

The women I usually chase are charmed by a few well-timed Simone de Beauvoir-quotes.

I don't think I have much advice to give in this thread.

Did you met her yet

I agree with Swen

I feel unclean

Oh will the two of you just get on?

Kadagar, Strike - I like both of you. The one thing I positively don't like is this antagonism.

Honestly, I want to bang your heads together sometimes.

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Originally Posted by Fragony

Some of us like to take it from the back you got a problem with that

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Not that there is anything wrong with that...

In other news, Fragony almost managed to type a grammatically correct sentence.

my advice is to simply not waste your time: you got better things to do I'm sure.

that and there's a good chance this won't work out. the pessimist in me.

if you still feel brave, just go up and talk to her. don't force it though.

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Originally Posted by Hax

In other news, Fragony almost managed to type a grammatically correct sentence.

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Nothing wrong with that sentence

So @Shaka_Khan, any news?

To add on the current awkward flirt tactics. I've asked my current girlfriend out in the bathrooms of our work place. I was between her and the exit, that way, she couldn't get away. It was a marvolous ambush.

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Originally Posted by Fragony

Nothing wrong with that sentence

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Did you met her yet

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Uhuh.

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Originally Posted by Hax

Uhuh.[/COLOR]

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Other sentence, but that's perfectly acceptable, have you met would have been better though

Edit, ipad fail, directed at your post

"Did you met" is incorrect, though. Did you meet would be the correct form.

O.k., I talked to her. I said "hello", but I couldn't think of anything else to say at that time. That's the problem. My mind tends to blank up when I'm around attractive girls. I think I was stiff if I remember correctly. I think it's because I lack confidence and was nervous.

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Originally Posted by Hax

"Did you met" is incorrect, though. Did you meet would be the correct form.

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Missed that

walk up to her, and tell her this. "Hegel said it is our duty to fall in love and get married. Hegel also said he was the greatest thinker the world has ever known. Shall we get on with it, I don't have all day!"

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Originally Posted by Kadagar_AV

Well, I for one would walk up and say, "Hello, my name is [insert name]. I must say that I think You are the most beautiful girl I have seen in my life, may I ask You out for a coffee some day?"

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And there you go. Best advice you can get. You'll get a straight-forward answer from her rather quickly.

Thread over.

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Originally Posted by Jolt

And there you go. Best advice you can get. You'll get a straight-forward answer from her rather quickly.

Thread over.

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Worst advice ever if you are nervous though. I don't know, just act natural SK.

Edit: few pointers

-it doesn't matter what you say
-it doesn't matter what you say

Finaly, best one

-it doesn't really matter what you say

Remember, women are people too.

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Originally Posted by Fragony

Worst advice ever if you are nervous though. I don't know, just act natural SK.

Edit: few pointers

-it doesn't matter what you say
-it doesn't matter what you say

Finaly, best one

-it doesn't really matter what you say

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Nervous guys can be endearing too. Or so every girl tells me.

I saw this and for some reason, made me want to post it in this thread.
https://i.imgur.com/FnylBGY.png