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Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Well I won't deny I'm an idiot, but at the end of the day I did what I could. I asked her out, what more could I do (apart from doing it about a year earlier, lol)?
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Originally Posted by Strike For The South
Well I won't deny I'm an idiot, but at the end of the day I did what I could. I asked her out, what more could I do (apart from doing it about a year earlier, lol)?
Believe it or not, but people came toghether and made children in the days before it was possible to ask girl questions on teh intrawebz. You can do it completely on your own - perhaps that's even the better solution.
The man has a point, talking about it won’t get you anywhere.
Stop over analyzing, you act like this will be the only woman who will ever consider you for face sitting status. Stop listening to people who treat interaction with women as rocket science.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwyr
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Originally Posted by Strike For The South
No, no, no,it’s far more complex than that.
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...and I used to think that oral sex was talking about it and aural sex was hearing all about it!Quote:
Originally Posted by Upxl
Us old fogies eh?
Pah!
*Lights pipe to give an aura of wisdom, takes a few puffs*
Here's a suggestion:
*Takes pipe out of mouth to add to the mystique*
Get one of your mates to set you up for a blind date.
*Puts pipe back into mouth and takes a final puff to complete the illusion*
Can somebody please explain to me why I saw and heard this as if Ralph Brown was doing it, in a rocking chair?Quote:
Originally Posted by Subotan
*For those of you unaware, Ralph Brown was the guy in Waynes World 2 who told the story about Ozzy and the Tiger in the Candy shop.
I was going for something along the lines of Tony Benn (Who I met a few weeka go and I got my picture with him SO AWESOME), so I honestly have no idea.
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Bingo! :2thumbsup:
only took 2 and a half months XD
better late than never
Actually about a year if you consider the whole story. :/Quote:
Originally Posted by Prussian to the Iron
eh. itll be worth it hopefully.
Patience is a virtue.
so many puns....so many puns...
EDIT: has nothing whatsoever to do with the last post. where did that even come from? Huh...
Will probably just meet up on campus and then go for lunch or something.
Man, I've no idea what I'm doing...
Walks in the park are good, so long as the weather is nice.
Be spontanious. Don't plan. It can reap it's own rewards without you even knowing. A well thought out course of action will breed hiccups.
Ask her out somewhere and don't stuter when you do itQuote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
https://img836.imageshack.us/img836/3966/firstdate.jpgQuote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
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Yay! :cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
This text, this weekend. Well Friday or Saturday, not Sunday afternoon.Quote:
Have you got a nurse outfit?
Next Saturday night, you text her from a bar you are with friends. Or from someplace else where it looks as if you've got a life, contrary to digital evidence to the contrary, which is only known to us. Tell her to come over. Then do your thing.
Just remmeber this will be the only woman whomever pays you any sort of romantic attentionQuote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
DONT SCREW IT UP
What the hell am I supposed to make of this I don't know. Everything is ***** cryptic.
Remember to follow these tips I learned in middle school:
1. Prepping. Make sure you have sprayed at least 1-2 cans of Axe body spray on your body. This will cover up the stench of failure and Mountain Dew Game Fuel you spilled on your shirt while playing Call of Duty 8: The same thing as last time warfare 4.
2. Mid game. As any hardcore gamer will tell you, a good start is key and a good clutch at the finish is what makes you pro, but the mid game is where the game is decided. Don't let her talk so much, because once she starts talking for more than 5 minutes your "paying attention" will just start looking like a creeper stare. Make sure you talk about 75% of the time and a lot so she knows how cool you are.
3. Don't show emotion. Women like men. Not boys. If you show emotion like a 5 year old, she wont roll with you. If she is sad, put on your poker face. If she is angry, put on your poker face. If she is happy, put on your poker face.
4. Lastly, make sure you look like you are in control of your life. While on your date, always make it a point to obviously look at other women as they walk by. This will show how little you need her. Women dont like it when guys get all clingy and dependent. Makes you look weak. Checking out all the other girls will introduce a competitive nature in her. The free market works wonders, and by having her think there is more demand (other women) than there is supply (your body) she will be wanting you even more and willing to pay a higher price for it. I just learned all this in my AP Econ class so you dont have to double check me cuz I got a C+. I would have gotten a B but that jerk Mr. Carmona didn't let me turn in my project late.
SO there you go. You should be fine now as long as you stick to those rules.
Just be yourself. Trying to be someone you're not won't work for long, if at all.
This is so win right now.Quote:
Originally Posted by a completely inoffensive name
If the girl likes you based on observation and interaction before a date was set up, one would assume it was based on sincerity of character, especially the observation part which I assume was done in class. Therefore this must be continued to ensure success, in my opinion. To act like you are not might be unappealing if that is not what she was interested in the first place. To act unlike yourself in contrast to what you are in sincerity will look pompous. Unless you are pompous in general and that is what she likes. The OP doesn't seem that way though thur reading his posts.
Heh. But I'm not even a gamer. Plus I never said anything about changing myself.
You my friend have just got the women!
Welcome to the Frontroom Takeda! :) I think that Rhyfelwr will do well.
idk I don't feel overly optimistic right now. Why the hell would she give me her number. If she jsut says text back.
Maybe she is really away and I am being stupid, jsut the whole text thign. but BAH!
Dude I think you're reading too much into it. Just text her on Saturday like she told you too, she was probably telling the truth about being away.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
I think I'm the same way you are when it comes to girls. There's this girl I've been good friends with for a couple years and after a while I really started to like her, so I asked her if she wanted to go out when school is done. She said yes, but then when we set the date she said she would invite her twin sister, and all this other stuff happened, so I keep thinking OH NO WHAT IF SHE DOESN'T REALLY WANT TO GO OUT WITH ME WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WHY DID SHE SAY YES IN THE FIRST PLACE or when I go talk to her she might be quiet because she's tired or whatever reason and the first thing that pops into my head is CRAP SHE'S MAD AT ME BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T REALLY WANT TO GO OUT WITH ME :dizzy2: I've realized that I just need to stop. Stop worrying about it, stop over analyzing, stop being insecure and thinking I've done something wrong when I obviously haven't. I just need to go with the flow and see how it turns out.
So my advice to you is stop thinking about it, be patient and be persistent (but not stalker persistent :laugh4:). If she really is just making excuses and trying to blow you off well that's her fault not yours she needs to learn to be straight up with you if she wants to get you off her back.
I'm supposed to go see Pirates of the Carribbean with that girl in a week and a half or so and then we'll see if my advice is any good. :laugh:
If it's a ploy, it's a ploy. Worrying about it won't change the fact. As Chuchip said, just roll with it and hope for the best.
Well well. Happy thinking.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. SHE IS JUST A GIRLQuote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
I DON'T KNOW HOW ELSE I CAN REITERATE THIS
I feel like I can't be bothered with this anymore, starting to wonder if I should even bother texting...
Just text her darn it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
Sometimes women are avoiding you, sometimes they aren't.
What I find frustrating is the lack of communication when they are actually busy, it makes it hard to tell.
So you have to just hope for the best. Being a man means taking all the crap.
Text her and find out. You can't let yourself get too high or too low when you hardly know her.
I agree with the previous three posters. I'd say you don't have much to lose by just texting her.
what the heck is a girl doing without a cell for 3 weeks....is she a barbarian or something?
Y U worry so much>
If ur not gonna will u at least give us her number? I still wanna ask her about all that 'help it seems to be malfunctioning nurse can you please check if it still works does this mean I need a full body checkup'.
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Mate, you'll know when a girl wants to be with you. Eye contact, inadvertent touching, a nice smile etc. Trust me.
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Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
Oh. Yes. Indeed.Quote:
Originally Posted by InsaneApache
If only it was that simple. Some girls can be more touchy-feely than others and it can give people the wrong idea, especially if you are like me and there's something about you that means most people wouldn't touch you with a bargepole.Quote:
Originally Posted by InsaneApache
Ah, that's too bad.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
Should you reply to her message anyway? All is basically said and done now, no? For all euphemisms and all, you were into this girl for a romantic relationship, not friends. She knows this, and told you no. Not much more to be said, no? A friendly chat if you see her in real life, sure. But is there a need for more awkward texting back-and-forth?
Also, go to Ibiza this summer! Get some mates together and find some hot British girls in heat on some beach, looking for some pinky burned rosbif to hook up with.
Don't complicate it too much. Go to the right place, where they are all British, all your age, and all looking for sex. Offer yourself to all of them. Sooner or later one of them will be up for it.
Exactly the right attitude! If you have the mind of an economist, think of it as creative destruction :yes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
Yeah, well I finished off with that text saying "ok thats cool see you around", so thats that, nothing too awkward.Quote:
Originally Posted by Louis VI the Fat
What makes it frustrating is I know that if you remember the story here, about a year ago I'm 99% sure she was interested in that way. But I guess I didn't act and must have appeared to shrug her off. Well, at least I will not make that mistake again.
You know I'm still a God-fearing soul, part of me might be tempted to do that (guess which part) but I know its not my thing really.Quote:
Originally Posted by Louis VI the Fat
:2thumbsup::laugh4::sweatdrop: Again wise words from the fat frog. :laugh4:Quote:
Also, go to Ibiza this summer! Get some mates together and find some hot British girls in heat on some beach, looking for some pinky burned rosbif to hook up with.
Don't complicate it too much. Go to the right place, where they are all British, all your age, and all looking for sex. Offer yourself to all of them. Sooner or later one of them will be up for it.
All the women at my school got boyfriends even though most are them got them when they in high school and guess what happens when the one goes to college and the other doesn't? The break up!! :laugh:
There's probably some truth in that, I think one of the girls here was interested in me, and that was reciprocated - but I didn't act and now she seems to have gone cold.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr
Microwave on high for 1 minute.Quote:
Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla
Meh, and so it goes
No great man was ever indecisive
Well, see, she's been on three continents in the last six weeks and before that we were all worrying about the UG's and their exams, and I was in Cambridge...Quote:
Originally Posted by Psychonaut
So I see Rhy's problem, hard to tell.
No. I am not starting my own thread :tongue:
You know you want to!Quote:
Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla
I will give you advice (lol)!
START IT
I mean their are only like 30 million more women in the UK
And theirs gotta be at least 5 million sheep
I'm not saying they are option A, I'm just saying they haven't been taken off the table
The problem is even if there are 30 million women that doesn't help me much in my situation.
At least at Uni you see other girls your own age. I spoke to about one guy my whole time at Uni (lol), but there were a fair few times where girls came and talked to me and I could have made something of it. For example in one class a Polish girl started sitting next to me, and outside of class once she came and was talking to me and being nice and smiling etc, and was saying bla bla bla and said yeah we will be in the same class next semester isn't that good (or something like that), and I justed sort of grunted "aye" as I do. My social skills used to be so bad it is actually comical to think of it. I was just so oblivious theres an element of Charlie Sheen winning about it.
Anyway, I've long ago forgotten the point I was making, so there you go.
WAIT: OK, my point was that at least in the past I have these chances even if I ruin it. As I did similarly with the girl in the current thread about a year ago before I pull my head out my arse.
But now I can never meet girls. Because besides work/gym, I don't do anyhting and there isn't really anything to do. I don't have the sort of mates that 'go out'. I never got involved at Uni so I've never been to fancy places in Glasgow, people here I know just hang around local places, which are the kind of pubs filled with Rab C Nesbitt type characters. This place is generally a dump and I've barely ever left it, the only club is one where someone got murdered outside a couple of weeks ago...
So I'm stuck in a bit of a rut. It might be fine for Strike or PVC in university enviromnents, but what am I supposed to do with my shitfest of a life?
Ah, man. I'm trying to send you hot advice by PM but your inbox appears to be full.
What the hell?!?!?!?! I never got wimmenz advice?
I never took French lovers to be this selfish :angry:
~;)
And Rhy, just keep talking eventually someone will like what you have to say
I wouldn't listen to advice from people with many failed relationships.
Obviously what they use to do leads to failure.
I'm not a fan of a trial and error approach to relationships.
And I don't see why you can't keep her as a friend, on one hand you don't know how long her current relationship will hold, on the other hand she can get you in contact with her girlfriends, maybe there's a really nice one among them. Not to forget that having female friends isn't a bad thing either way, they see things different from men and can give you a different perspective on some things.
Not for all of them...Quote:
Originally Posted by ELITEOFKINGWARMAN88
Probably I am too tired by what do you mean by this?Quote:
Originally Posted by Strike For The South