Women are confusing

[Strike For The South]

idk I don't feel overly optimistic right now. Why the hell would she give me her number. If she jsut says text back.

Maybe she is really away and I am being stupid, jsut the whole text thign. but BAH!

DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. SHE IS JUST A GIRL

I DON'T KNOW HOW ELSE I CAN REITERATE THIS

[Rhyfelwyr]

I feel like I can't be bothered with this anymore, starting to wonder if I should even bother texting...

[Prussian to the Iron]

[naut]

I feel like I can't be bothered with this anymore, starting to wonder if I should even bother texting...

Just text her darn it.

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

Sometimes women are avoiding you, sometimes they aren't.

What I find frustrating is the lack of communication when they are actually busy, it makes it hard to tell.

So you have to just hope for the best. Being a man means taking all the crap.

[Hosakawa Tito]

Text her and find out. You can't let yourself get too high or too low when you hardly know her.

[Csargo]

I agree with the previous three posters. I'd say you don't have much to lose by just texting her.

[MajorFreak]

what the heck is a girl doing without a cell for 3 weeks....is she a barbarian or something?

[Strike For The South]

Y U worry so much>

[Louis VI the Fat]

If ur not gonna will u at least give us her number? I still wanna ask her about all that 'help it seems to be malfunctioning nurse can you please check if it still works does this mean I need a full body checkup'.

[Rhyfelwyr]

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[InsaneApache]

Mate, you'll know when a girl wants to be with you. Eye contact, inadvertent touching, a nice smile etc. Trust me.

[naut]

I'm glad I have this experience because in future I will keep things straightforward and be more decisive without things dragging on into this confusion. It's nice to put a lid on all this crap.

Mate, you'll know when a girl wants to be with you. Eye contact, inadvertent touching, a nice smile etc. Trust me.

Oh. Yes. Indeed.

[Rhyfelwyr]

Mate, you'll know when a girl wants to be with you. Eye contact, inadvertent touching, a nice smile etc. Trust me.

If only it was that simple. Some girls can be more touchy-feely than others and it can give people the wrong idea, especially if you are like me and there's something about you that means most people wouldn't touch you with a bargepole.

[Louis VI the Fat]

Final update...

Well I text and said how was your trip, she said yeah great. So I asked if she was free to meet up later in the week, and she took a while to respond, and replied she has a boyfriend but would be ok to meet up as friends.

I'm not really that bothered, the thing felt like it was petering out anyway. There's been too much "is there isn't there" crap with girls of late. If you consider how long this story has been, and the one from a past thread (girl from work, the boss thinks just recently we have a "thing", although she has a boyfriend, but nothing is going to be happening there).

I'm glad I have this experience because in future I will keep things straightforward and be more decisive without things dragging on into this confusion. It's nice to put a lid on all this crap.

Anyway, how would you reply to her last message without being rude, since I dont really want to go down the road of being just friends, its not like I really know her anyway?

EDIT: nm, just said "ah ok thats cool see you aruond"

Bah!

Ah, that's too bad.


Should you reply to her message anyway? All is basically said and done now, no? For all euphemisms and all, you were into this girl for a romantic relationship, not friends. She knows this, and told you no. Not much more to be said, no? A friendly chat if you see her in real life, sure. But is there a need for more awkward texting back-and-forth?



Also, go to Ibiza this summer! Get some mates together and find some hot British girls in heat on some beach, looking for some pinky burned rosbif to hook up with.
Don't complicate it too much. Go to the right place, where they are all British, all your age, and all looking for sex. Offer yourself to all of them. Sooner or later one of them will be up for it.

[Subotan]

I'm glad I have this experience because in future I will keep things straightforward and be more decisive without things dragging on into this confusion. It's nice to put a lid on all this crap.

Exactly the right attitude! If you have the mind of an economist, think of it as creative destruction

[Rhyfelwyr]

Should you reply to her message anyway? All is basically said and done now, no? For all euphemisms and all, you were into this girl for a romantic relationship, not friends. She knows this, and told you no. Not much more to be said, no? A friendly chat if you see her in real life, sure. But is there a need for more awkward texting back-and-forth?

Yeah, well I finished off with that text saying "ok thats cool see you around", so thats that, nothing too awkward.

What makes it frustrating is I know that if you remember the story here, about a year ago I'm 99% sure she was interested in that way. But I guess I didn't act and must have appeared to shrug her off. Well, at least I will not make that mistake again.

Also, go to Ibiza this summer! Get some mates together and find some hot British girls in heat on some beach, looking for some pinky burned rosbif to hook up with.
Don't complicate it too much. Go to the right place, where they are all British, all your age, and all looking for sex. Offer yourself to all of them. Sooner or later one of them will be up for it.

You know I'm still a God-fearing soul, part of me might be tempted to do that (guess which part) but I know its not my thing really.

[InsaneApache]

Also, go to Ibiza this summer! Get some mates together and find some hot British girls in heat on some beach, looking for some pinky burned rosbif to hook up with.
Don't complicate it too much. Go to the right place, where they are all British, all your age, and all looking for sex. Offer yourself to all of them. Sooner or later one of them will be up for it.

Again wise words from the fat frog.

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

All the women at my school got boyfriends even though most are them got them when they in high school and guess what happens when the one goes to college and the other doesn't? The break up!!

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

Yeah, well I finished off with that text saying "ok thats cool see you around", so thats that, nothing too awkward.

What makes it frustrating is I know that if you remember the story here, about a year ago I'm 99% sure she was interested in that way. But I guess I didn't act and must have appeared to shrug her off. Well, at least I will not make that mistake again.

There's probably some truth in that, I think one of the girls here was interested in me, and that was reciprocated - but I didn't act and now she seems to have gone cold.

[naut]

but I didn't act and now she seems to have gone cold.

Microwave on high for 1 minute.

[Strike For The South]

Meh, and so it goes

[Subotan]

No great man was ever indecisive

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

Microwave on high for 1 minute.

Well, see, she's been on three continents in the last six weeks and before that we were all worrying about the UG's and their exams, and I was in Cambridge...

So I see Rhy's problem, hard to tell.

No. I am not starting my own thread

[Rhyfelwyr]

No. I am not starting my own thread

You know you want to!

I will give you advice (lol)!

[Strike For The South]

START IT

I mean their are only like 30 million more women in the UK

And theirs gotta be at least 5 million sheep

I'm not saying they are option A, I'm just saying they haven't been taken off the table

[Rhyfelwyr]

The problem is even if there are 30 million women that doesn't help me much in my situation.

At least at Uni you see other girls your own age. I spoke to about one guy my whole time at Uni (lol), but there were a fair few times where girls came and talked to me and I could have made something of it. For example in one class a Polish girl started sitting next to me, and outside of class once she came and was talking to me and being nice and smiling etc, and was saying bla bla bla and said yeah we will be in the same class next semester isn't that good (or something like that), and I justed sort of grunted "aye" as I do. My social skills used to be so bad it is actually comical to think of it. I was just so oblivious theres an element of Charlie Sheen winning about it.

Anyway, I've long ago forgotten the point I was making, so there you go.

WAIT: OK, my point was that at least in the past I have these chances even if I ruin it. As I did similarly with the girl in the current thread about a year ago before I pull my head out my arse.

But now I can never meet girls. Because besides work/gym, I don't do anyhting and there isn't really anything to do. I don't have the sort of mates that 'go out'. I never got involved at Uni so I've never been to fancy places in Glasgow, people here I know just hang around local places, which are the kind of pubs filled with Rab C Nesbitt type characters. This place is generally a dump and I've barely ever left it, the only club is one where someone got murdered outside a couple of weeks ago...

So I'm stuck in a bit of a rut. It might be fine for Strike or PVC in university enviromnents, but what am I supposed to do with my shitfest of a life?

[Louis VI the Fat]

Ah, man. I'm trying to send you hot advice by PM but your inbox appears to be full.

[Strike For The South]

What the hell?!?!?!?! I never got wimmenz advice?

I never took French lovers to be this selfish



And Rhy, just keep talking eventually someone will like what you have to say

[Husar]

I wouldn't listen to advice from people with many failed relationships.
Obviously what they use to do leads to failure.
I'm not a fan of a trial and error approach to relationships.

And I don't see why you can't keep her as a friend, on one hand you don't know how long her current relationship will hold, on the other hand she can get you in contact with her girlfriends, maybe there's a really nice one among them. Not to forget that having female friends isn't a bad thing either way, they see things different from men and can give you a different perspective on some things.