What to do you if you notice you have just attracted a beautiful girl?

OK, there is the thread about "How to attract a girl". But that's not my problem. My problem is

What to do if you notice you have just attracted a beautiful girl?

For example yesterday. At first I attracted a Turkish girl on the tram. Her nose was not so nice, but therefore the rest of her was even nicer. She smiled twice at me, first when I got into the tram and second when she left. Sadly I couldn't stand to look at her, but instead looked away!!! :wall:

Second I attracted another girl in university. She begged me to stand up because she had to go toilet I suppose, and later the opposite direction... She smiled at me as well, and I smiled back, but that was all. :wall:

Third, I somehow made a girl in the train home smile at me. She smiled at me even brighter than the other ones, which made me think she wouldn't smile at me. I sat down in the same group of seats, but didn't look or smile at her!! :wall:

So you see I might be attractive but a total moron. I just don't know what to do. :huh: :huh: :huh:

Edit: I've had relationsships and I'm not totally socially incompetent. It is these random encounters I cannot use.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lsMKIZe1pCE

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Stop taking them from the rest of us pathetic guys.

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Originally Posted by CountArach

Stop taking them from the rest of us pathetic guys.

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:yes: Agreed.

I didn't watch the video, but here are a few of my own tips.

First, gage how flirty she's being. If she's being a whore about it, then be a whore back.

But if she's being genuine, this is what you do.

1.) Smile back!!!
2.) Approach her. Women find it most attractive and appealing when a guy isn't tripping over himself in nervousness.
3.) Talk to her. Get to know her. Don't make her think you're trying to get into her pants. Just try to be her friend. Don't be gay about it, but show that you're interested in her, not just her body.

Seeming unafraid is the best thing you can do. Some girls find shyness as cute, but when it comes down to it, shy guys finish last.

So be yourself. Be out-going. Be unafraid. And everything will turn out as good as it can.

There ya go, hope this helps.

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Originally Posted by Centurio Nixalsverdrus

What to do if you notice you have just attracted a beautiful girl?

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Smile back, undo a few buttons of your shirt, wink her over, and say: 'Yo, baby, I've got a tiger in my pants and he's ready to RRROAARRRR!!! '

Run away screaming like a little girl. Works everytime

Kill her and build her a shrine. Or of course do the want a drink gesture.

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Originally Posted by Ichigo

Run away screaming like a little girl. Works everytime

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From experience I can back up Ichi on this one.

Be Really Really Ridiculously Good Looking.

https://i320.photobucket.com/albums/.../Zoolander.jpg

You sure there wasn't any pasta on your face?

Make sure she actually is smiling at you rather than the guy/gal next to you or behind you.

She has done a face lift, if you ask me. So she's to old anyway.

It all depends on the situation. Just try to find something to start a conversation with, you need to get her to talk. Even starting about the weather is better than nothing. The topic will shift and vary anyway. Be confident and make a joke or two. But really don't overdo it, the sameis also true about compliments. Later find an excuse to touch her, and I don't mean a kiss or smacking on her ass, no a quick unsensual touch. Like touching her shoulder for a very breif moment. Keep the copnversation going and then if you feel it's right with you, and especially if you feel she'll be alright with it, ask her number or msn or whatever. If you're on the train don't wait till she needs to get off the train. Then she'll be thinking about getting off on time more, than she'll ne caring about you're number.
If for some reason it doesn't feel right or you think she doesn't feel okay with it, back off a little. But keep the conversation going a little longer. That way you'll see if she tries to keep the conversation going. But again don't overdo it, or you end up without a good conversation and every hope.
Do ask wether she has a boyfreind or not, but it of course shouldn't be the first thing to ask.

The main problem is picking topics that are appriopriate, reading her and starting the conversation. For the last one you can also try to get her starting it, this will also make her more off guard or you'll notice if she has the samething in mind already by her choice of topic(s). Dropping a pen for example that she'll pick up for you can easily be done on the train. If she doesn't pick it up let her be.
Picking topics is something you don't have complete control over. Just don't start about how much booze you drank last night and puked all over. At first try something normal, then observe what she think is interesting. And as you are asking about her anyway, try to find common intrest. For example a music band, a tv show. The way she is dressed will also tell alot about her. Use that.
Reading her, is something you need to learn and remains different for every girl. Some people are naturally good at this others aren't, but if you do this more often you'll get better at judging. The same goes with confidence and picking topics.

Also never be afraid to try, the worst you can get is a no. Unless you are a real idiot and start with something like: 'nice shoes, want to sh*g?', or start touching her like that. But then you deserved it anyway. Like they say in dutch ' Een nee hebt ge, een ja kunt ge krijgen.' (= 'You always start with a No anyway, you can only get a Yes.' Difficult sentence to translate really...)

Fish is good!

Just remember, this is the only time you can manipulate women, so take advantage of it!

What's a fail safe phrase to kick start a conversation?

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Originally Posted by edyzmedieval

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There's no such thing, really.

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Originally Posted by edyzmedieval

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Any phrase that's guaranteed not fail safe, really. :yes:

Don't start about the weather. Or with 'do I know you from somewhere'? Don't be a bore. :snore:

Instead, open with something like 'Eh, have you ever made a mozzarella salad?'. And then take it from there. :yes:

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Originally Posted by edyzmedieval

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http://linesthataregood.com/lame.html

Just listen to Whacker, da ladieth man!

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Failsafe one?

"So I noticed your bra size was...."

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Originally Posted by Marshal Murat

"So I noticed your bra size was...."

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"What a coincidence, that's my mum's size."

Yer hands smell like the inside of my momma's purse.

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Originally Posted by edyzmedieval

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Just say something extremily witty and and suave, mildly teasing and full of playfull innuendo carefully balancing between the inane and the substansial, getting it exactly right.

Geez edyz how hard can it be.

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Originally Posted by Fragony

Just say something extremily witty and and suave, mildly teasing and full of playfull innuendo carefully balancing between the inane and the substansial, getting it exactly right.

Geez edyz how hard can it be.

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I've struck up a couple relationships from random subway meetings, although they are typically short, as in less than 3 months. I'd say just take a look at her and see if there is anything about her you can comment on. Is she wearing a festival marker, a particular piece of clothing etc. Once you've said the first sentence the next is bound to come more naturally. If it doesn't, you'll at least have some more experience walking up to girls which is good in itself. Girls really enjoy these random encounters and are very likely to want to meet you if you can strike up a decent, normal conversation at a moment's notice.

If you're really nervous and/or cannot possibly think of anything to say, you can try to guess when she needs to get off from her stance in the seat (most people have pretty obvious body language, you'll know what to look for after a couple observations) and talk to her then. Just say you noticed she was very beautiful and you'd like to meet her sometime. If you timed it wrong, she's getting off too soon and you're not in a hurry, you can even go off at her stop. Get her phone number and make sure she notices that you stay and wait for the next transport (romantic), unless you worry about her standing around and continuing the conversation, which you shouldn't worry about as it's only another indication that she's interested.

When you do meet afterwards you can talk about the crazy situation you met in. Since she doesn't know the first thing about you except that you are confident enough to approach her, you're probably better off taking her to a short and non-threatening meeting the first time, like a lunch or walk in a park or something. If you feel it is going really well you can suggest to prolong the meet, but usually end it there; always keep them wanting more.

My track record of getting phone numbers this way is about 80% (for non-taken ones, that is... for taken ones it's very low but non-zero) and actually getting to meet after is about 40%. The best part of all this is, even if you screw up, you'll get better at talking to random people, which is only a good thing.

These ones are just incredible.

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You know, my mother always told me it was impolite to stare... so what do you say we dance?

The only thing your eyes haven't told me is your name.

I can't believe I've been here the entire evening with all these beautiful people and the moment I find 'The One', all I have time to say is "good bye".

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I cracked up seriously on these ones. :laugh4:

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Want to come see my HARD DRIVE? I promise it isn't 3.5 inches and it ain't floppy.

You make my software turn to hardware!

What do you say we go back to my room and do some math: Add a bed, subtract our clothes, divide your legs, and multiply.

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"Hey, do you know what I like to do before breakfast?" "You jerk!" "What? You don't like showering?"

If you are the kind of person that can get away with it, tell her you can move her boobs with brainpower alone. Of course you can't. Yes I can wanna bet for a drink? If she agrees grab those puppies and give them a squeeze, and buy her a drink. You won. Now I don't have the cojones for this one but a completily shameless friend of mine who is a genius with the lady's does, and it works for him.

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Originally Posted by edyzmedieval

What's a fail safe phrase to kick start a conversation?

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you: hey
her: hey
you: hows it going/ how are you doing/ etc

conversation starts depending on how interested she is.

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Originally Posted by bovi

The best part of all this is, even if you screw up, you'll get better at talking to random people, which is only a good thing.

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QFT. Shy guys finish last.

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Originally Posted by Geoffrey S

QFT. Shy guys finish last.

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Mwah, being too agressive doesn't help either, depends on what kind of guy you are. I am not a pick-up in a subway kinda guy it's just not part of my make-up. Had a few one-nighters but it was always me being seduced, not going for that myselve I like to have it grown a little.

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What to do if you notice you have just attracted a beautiful girl?

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Nothing, shes attracted to you.

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Originally Posted by Fragony

Mwah, being too agressive doesn't help either, depends on what kind of guy you are. I am not a pick-up in a subway kinda guy it's just not part of my make-up. Had a few one-nighters but it was always me being seduced, not going for that myselve I like to have it grown a little.

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Agreed, completely. Just mean to say that not saying anything if you want to is a lost situation, whereas doing so is win/win.

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Originally Posted by Fragony

If you are the kind of person that can get away with it, tell her you can move her boobs with brainpower alone. Of course you can't. Yes I can wanna bet for a drink? If she agrees grab those puppies and give them a squeeze, and buy her a drink. You won. Now I don't have the cojones for this one but a completily shameless friend of mine who is a genius with the lady's does, and it works for him.

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Dammit Frag. I actually spit out some of my drink as I read this laughing.

Find her boyfriend and beat the tar out of him.

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Find her boyfriend and beat the tar out of him.

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"Hey, I saw you on the bus/subway/street yesterday. I looked your name up on the human flesh search engine, found your MySpace, found your boyfriend, and I pretty much beat him up. Here's his right hand, proof of my victory. I would ask you for your telephone number, but I already found it. I know you don't have anything happening this weekend, so would you mind if I picked you up at your house? I found it on Google Earth."

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Thank you for your help, especially Moros and bovi. :2thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by Fragony

Mwah, being too agressive doesn't help either, depends on what kind of guy you are. I am not a pick-up in a subway kinda guy it's just not part of my make-up. Had a few one-nighters but it was always me being seduced, not going for that myselve I like to have it grown a little.

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In case you missed it, this is not a way of seduction, it's a way to get contact. In fact, I mostly go for the long haul myself, and at any rate you're unlikely to find an instant partner in such an unlikely situation. Pickup lines work in bars because girls too are out to get some there (and what line you use doesn't matter, as first impressions are already made before you make contact), but they are not looking for a partner in a subway carriage. I suspect this is part of the reason why approaching them yields pretty good results in the first place, it catches them off guard.

Edit: By the way, I should add that this is outdated information. I haven't been pursuing anyone for more than 4 years, due to my longterm relationship with my current GF, who was not found in a subway.

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Originally Posted by bovi

In case you missed it,

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Wasn't meant as an attack in any way :bow:

Flash her.*

Come on, she's going to want to inspect the goods, isn't she?


*For best results, wear a dirty rain mac. And nothing else (apart from shoes, if you want).

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Originally Posted by Marshal Murat

"Hey, I saw you on the bus/subway/street yesterday. I looked your name up on the human flesh search engine, found your MySpace, found your boyfriend, and I pretty much beat him up. Here's his right hand, proof of my victory. I would ask you for your telephone number, but I already found it. I know you don't have anything happening this weekend, so would you mind if I picked you up at your house? I found it on Google Earth."

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:laugh4: That's great.

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Originally Posted by Marshal Murat

"Hey, I saw you on the bus/subway/street yesterday. I looked your name up on the human flesh search engine, found your MySpace, found your boyfriend, and I pretty much beat him up. Here's his right hand, proof of my victory. I would ask you for your telephone number, but I already found it. I know you don't have anything happening this weekend, so would you mind if I picked you up at your house? I found it on Google Earth."

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Haha, epic :laugh4:

I seriously want to try out what Marshal Murat said. I wonder if I'm going to have any YESses. :beam:

Edyz, two key things that you need.
1 - You need to figure out her schedule to ensure that you can deploy your pick-up line.
2 - You should find out her name, and that's easily found out by following her, and finding her address. Look at her mail or use google.

Now, I would suggest that you buy a trenchcoat, a fedora, and carry around a pack of cigs, just to give the impression that you fit in.

go up and ask her, "excuse me, do you know how much a polar bear weighs?" Then pause for a second, wait for her answer (probalby something like i don't know), then say "Enough to break the ice" and then introduce yourself. 60% of the time it works everytime.

I've heard a variation on that theme. Ask the bartender for an ice cube, then go to the girl and smash it on the counter. "Now that we've broken the ice, what's your name?"

First, don't think too much, just be yourself, and then do whatever you do.

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Originally Posted by cmacq

First, don't think too much, just be yourself, and then do whatever you do.

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And if that doesn't work, I guess it's bound to screw up sooner or later anyway.

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Originally Posted by Gelatinous Cube

Breaking the ice is the hardest part

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Yep. :yes: I was out this evening, and there was the prettiest barmaid, but I couldn't build up the confidence to talk to her. Ah, the shame. :embarassed:

What helped me a lot was just making friends. Those friends have friends too. And they could be pretty. The more contacts you have, the bigger the chance is that you'll meet someone very nice. That's how I picked up my latest girlfriend.

Also, don't be shy. Just walk up to her and start talking. As said before, it could be any subject. Don't be too shy, but also don't be too arrogant. BEST WISHES COMRADE!

...if talking doesn't work, beat her over the head with a club and drag her along to your cave.

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Originally Posted by Hax

What helped me a lot was just making friends. Those friends have friends too. And they could be pretty. The more contacts you have, the bigger the chance is that you'll meet someone very nice. That's how I picked up my latest girlfriend.

Also, don't be shy. Just walk up to her and start talking. As said before, it could be any subject. Don't be too shy, but also don't be too arrogant. BEST WISHES COMRADE!

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The old I'm only talking to you to get to your hawt friend tactic. :laugh4:

Unfortunately some of us are alot more reserved, like me! Even after a numerous beers, Jagerbombs, and shots of all varieties. :wink2:

Handsome fella such as yourselve? Should be making miles by the minute

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The old I'm only talking to you to get to your hawt friend tactic. :laugh4:

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You got it!