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Women? How much suceuss do you have with the ladies? I myself actually have small sucess, but nothing to eat Cashews and Milk over though sadly.
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Not really tried for over 3 years.
Not ready.
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Give everyone alcohol.
Many a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Give everyone alcohol.
Many a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
Remind me to give you a million dollars if I hit the lottery.
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If by success you mean getting zoned, then yes. More often than not. Its lame.
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Originally Posted by
Veho Nex
If by success you mean getting zoned, then yes. More often than not. Its lame.
Sluts.
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Sluts.
Are you saying I pursue them?
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Sluts.
Dirty women.
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I fail at this. Despite having no life, numerous opportunities have still presented themselves to me without any effort of my own, and I still can't do it.
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Same here Rhy. Half the time I chicken out, and the times I do man up (more then you think), they not interested. So it's like, whatever.
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Move with grace! Move with confidence! Move with...
yeah, you probably should not listen to me...
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Sluts.
Yeah.
Hey. Are we man-whores?
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I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
I'm sort of the same way. I once said, "hey, how's it going?" to a girl in my class, and apparently that was enough. But as for hitting on a girl, that's about all that I know.
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Depends what role you need to play within the cultural norm. I find myself most successful if I play the short, hairy, funny guy. Whereas I couldn't play the large, muscular, surfer guy which my friend plays very (frustratingly) well. At the same time I couldn't play the intellectual or the sensitive guy.
Also
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Many a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
LOL
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well, still running arround chasing girls? I bet you are frustated, actually, here is some alternatives
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
3) go to church, and pray endlessly in two or three days, attend every worship and prayer events, and become a very pious and religious man, I can bet some girls will start to see something in you. (if you don't get some sucess, maybe your life had another purpose than chasing girls arround... )
4) directly speak to your parents and ask to get a marriage arrangements (if you are soo frustated by the prospect of not having any girl). But necer complain if they gave you the fat chubby one...
5) ask for a mail order bride from *****
actually, a girl is reading all of this, and she said "pity for warman"
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I don't really have any success, but I think that's mostly cause I don't really try. Hitting on girls I barely know isn't really my style anyway.
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Originally Posted by
Cute Wolf
well, still running arround chasing girls? I bet you are frustated, actually, here is some alternatives
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
This has been my approach with this one girl for a while. I think after two years, I might be getting close, but I don't know for sure.
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Originally Posted by
Chuchip
This has been my approach with this one girl for a while. I think after two years, I might be getting close, but I don't know for sure.
Welcome to:
The Friend Zone.
http://www.thesixthnonsense.com/wp-c...riend-zone.jpg
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Originally Posted by
Megas Methuselah
I'm sort of the same way. I once said, "hey, how's it going?" to a girl in my class, and apparently that was enough. But as for hitting on a girl, that's about all that I know.
We are still men
It's a bit of a curse to be atractive to the other gender
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Sluts.
This.
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Originally Posted by
Cute Wolf
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
No. No. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!
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Originally Posted by
Cute Wolf
2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
Don't change yourself for anyone other than yourself. Otherwise your priorities will be all wrong.
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Originally Posted by
Psychonaut
No. No. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!
I would listen to him. Friendships are nice and all, but once she sees you as a friend it will almsot never work out to be anything more that that. And, seeing as how love through closeness is more true for males than females, you will only depress yourself.
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Originally Posted by
Motep
I would listen to him. Friendships are nice and all, but once she sees you as a friend it will almsot never work out to be anything more that that. And, seeing as how love through closeness is more true for males than females, you will only depress yourself.
It's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".
Confidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
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Originally Posted by
Psychonaut
It's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".
Confidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
For the second time, do not listen to me. Listen to this guy
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Originally Posted by
Motep
Move with grace! Move with confidence! Move with...
yeah, you probably should not listen to me...
Strike hard, Strike fast, be bold
is my motto. I'm trying to figure out if it works to much for me that it causes me to fail or what. :laugh4:
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Originally Posted by
Megas Methuselah
Yeah.
Hey. Are we man-whores?
Ummm..... You tell me. :dizzy2:
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
Your advice Mr.Chick man?
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Originally Posted by
Cute Wolf
well, still running arround chasing girls? I bet you are frustated, actually, here is some alternatives
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
3) go to church, and pray endlessly in two or three days, attend every worship and prayer events, and become a very pious and religious man, I can bet some girls will start to see something in you. (if you don't get some sucess, maybe your life had another purpose than chasing girls arround... )
4) directly speak to your parents and ask to get a marriage arrangements (if you are soo frustated by the prospect of not having any girl). But necer complain if they gave you the fat chubby one...
5) ask for a mail order bride from *****
actually, a girl is reading all of this, and she said "pity for warman"
No, they would just slap me with a restraining order. :laugh4:
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In my absence Psychonaut is your king.
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It's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".
Agreed, Girls go for the ass and screw over the nice guy is a misnomer. Girls go for the guy who knows what he wants and doesn't give a damn what anyone else thinks, esp. when it comes to her.
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Confidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
are you talking only looks? b/c I would have to disagree. Now a good body goes a long way but a man can eaisly overcome being ugly
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
are you talking only looks? b/c I would have to disagree. Now a good body goes a long way but a man can eaisly overcome being ugly
I'm talking about everything combined, looks+attitude+personality+etc. A product is more than its packaging, etc.
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Originally Posted by
Psychonaut
I'm talking about everything combined, looks+attitude+personality+etc. A product is more than its packaging, etc.
true, but a man can be defficent in any one of those things save confiedence, if you walk around like you have no balls, ladies will treat you as such
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
true, but a man can be defficent in any one of those things save confiedence, if you walk around like you have no balls, ladies will treat you as such
Or they'll cross the street.
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
true, but a man can be defficent in any one of those things save confiedence, if you walk around like you have no balls, ladies will treat you as such
Money, looks, brains, etc. will make a man confident......
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Because Im interesting, handsome, and witty
See?
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Originally Posted by
Crazed Rabbit
:laugh:
Here are guys who always pick up the ladies.
http://www.arpadmodels.co.uk/images/ohusz.jpg
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So it's true, then, there are no females on the org?
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I would have to say so. The horror, the horror!
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Well, with conversations like these...
we need more chick friendly convos.
Any ideas?
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Originally Posted by
quadalpha
So it's true, then, there are no females on the org?
No I think there's a few.
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The ones we do have here are probably older then us and don't want us. :laugh4:
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Yea that and they're smart and they know better than to date strangers they met on the internet.
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Originally Posted by
AntiKingWarmanCake88
The ones we do have here are probably older then us and don't want us. :laugh4:
On the other hand, I have it on good authority that women's desire is directly proportional to the number of Steam achievements you have.
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Originally Posted by
Chuchip
Yea that and they're smart and they know better than to date strangers they met on the internet.
:yes: :idea2:
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Originally Posted by
quadalpha
On the other hand, I have it on good authority that women's desire is directly proportional to the number of Steam achievements you have.
Which must be pretty low then.:laugh4:
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May I defend friendship (no sexual relationship) with women? One of my closest advisors is female and I do not complain about that, really. You see, women see things from different point of view and this is always helpful on numerous occassions.
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Originally Posted by
Prince Cobra
May I defend friendship (no sexual relationship) with women? One of my closest advisors is female and I do not complain about that, really. You see, women see things from different point of view and this is always helpful on numerous occassions.
I would like some ladies as friends.
:balloon2::balloon2:
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
ofcourse they come to you... those poor chicks rely on you to give them food and that you are so damn evil that you would have these innocent chicks trade food for sex says something bout you and your perverted society!!!
how can u do that to something this cute???
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Originally Posted by
Motep
Any ideas?
Oh yes:
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Originally Posted by
Motep
Well, with conversations like these...
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Originally Posted by
Motep
we need more chick friendly convos.
Drop it, now! :laugh4:
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i am an attractive male. i realize this. i also realize i am in university where the females are never easier.
i do what i need to do to get what i need to get....... though im on a dry run right now...... wifing up two girls simulataneously and then calling one by the others name is a mistake.
in my defense they were both part korean.
you really only need two things
1. confidence
2. confidence.
literally it all stems from that especially when alcohol is involved
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One of our female orgahs is quite the knockout, but she has bad character as LEN found out (got a good memory)
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Originally Posted by
Prince Cobra
May I defend friendship (no sexual relationship) with women? One of my closest advisors is female and I do not complain about that, really. You see, women see things from different point of view and this is always helpful on numerous occassions.
I agree there's nothing wrong with being in "the friend zone". My best friend is a girl, and I'm happy to have the girl I mentioned earlier as a friend whether we ever get into a relationship or not.
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Originally Posted by
Chuchip
I agree there's nothing wrong with being in "the friend zone".
... with benefits. Is there such a zone?
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Friend-zone is one of those things where you are only going to be just friends.
The whole idea is, some males attempt to some how get in the pants of girls, is to pretend to be their friends, then get trapped in the 'friend-zone'. A friend-zone is very good for a female though, it helps them with their self-esteem, plus they don't have to 'give out' to the males, so all the benefits of a relationship, without the annoying sex part.
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Originally Posted by
Chuchip
I agree there's nothing wrong with being in "the friend zone". My best friend is a girl, and I'm happy to have the girl I mentioned earlier as a friend whether we ever get into a relationship or not.
Don't Quit
I have female friends only because I have knwon them, the better part of our lives, any women I meet now I basically judge on sex/relationship potential
no attachment
Not to say I am not the consumate gentleman, I am
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a month ago i got trapped by a female. meaning i now go out with her and im relatively content...... but i wanr all you gentlemen it began as a "friends with benefits"
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Originally Posted by
Centurion1
a month ago i got trapped by a female. meaning i now go out with her and im relatively content...... but i wanr all you gentlemen it began as a "friends with benefits"
Tarp
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Originally Posted by
quadalpha
... with benefits. Is there such a zone?
I don't believe in friends with benefits, sometimes me and my friend used to get intimate on occasion and it was just weird.
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Originally Posted by
Beskar
Friend-zone is one of those things where you are only going to be just friends.
The whole idea is, some males attempt to some how get in the pants of girls, is to pretend to be their friends, then get trapped in the 'friend-zone'. A friend-zone is very good for a female though, it helps them with their self-esteem, plus they don't have to 'give out' to the males, so all the benefits of a relationship, without the annoying sex part.
I think that's a lame thing to do, if you're going to be friends with someone you should be sincere about it. I do think it's ok to be friends with someone you're interested in, because in my opinion a good relationship is based on friendship. If you couldn't stand just being friends with your girlfriend, then she's probably not right for you.
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What kind of video game forum is this where the majority of people posting have talked to girls?
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Everyone here needs to stop putting on a pedastal.
They are just women
Smaller, weaker, and stupider versions of us
And you're scared of them
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Scared of the *the female reproductive organ,* no. Put it on a pedestal, not really. Scared of the intamacy, a little. Scared of talking to potential sexy-time co-pilots, VERY much so.
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Tarp
https://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y231/lars573/tarp.jpg
:smash:
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Originally Posted by
a completely inoffensive name
What kind of video game forum is this where the majority of people posting have talked to girls?
ACIN!!! WHAT'S UP, PLAYA??!
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Everyone here needs to stop putting on a pedastal.
They are just women
Smaller, weaker, and stupider versions of us
And you're scared of them
You so mean to the opposite sex.:laugh4:
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Everyone needs to learn to stop caring and be direct
Quit the games and infrences.
See what you want and take it
Dont waste time
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Can't if want you what is taken by another person. :laugh4:
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My best friend is female, and I hang round with and talk to quite a few of them so I don't really have any problems with girls.
I do remember reaching a low point last year though, where I spent the latter half of 2009 and the first half of 2010 being almost purely with guys, but now I talk to girls much more and all's good.
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Originally Posted by
Megas Methuselah
ACIN!!! WHAT'S UP, PLAYA??!
MAH BOI! Nothing much man! Just enjoying my winter break. You?
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Everyone here needs to stop putting on a pedastal.
They are just women
Smaller, weaker, and stupider versions of us
And you're scared of them
women are awesome. without women all the fun in the world would be about farts... how sad would that be. now atleast if you are not with a woman and having fun you can be with guys and have fun about women!
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Originally Posted by
Strike For The South
Everyone needs to learn to stop caring and be direct
Quit the games and infrences.
See what you want and take it
Dont waste time
This guy knows what he is talking about.
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
One of our female orgahs is quite the knockout, but she has bad character as LEN found out (got a good memory)
W-wha ?
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Originally Posted by
LeftEyeNine
W-wha ?
Hoped you missed that, I know, got the wrong Turk, it was Chibei, in my defence it isn't my fault you all look the same
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Originally Posted by
Fragony
Hoped you missed that, I know, got the wrong Turk, it was Chibei, in my defence it isn't my fault you all look the same
Our only common trait with teh Dutchies.
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Originally Posted by
LeftEyeNine
Our only common trait with teh Dutchies.
OK I screwed up, but you you can't really blame us for being handsome that's just cheap
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Take some time asking summertime Dutchie visitors about what works more directly than handsomeness, mia mucha.
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Originally Posted by
LeftEyeNine
Take some time asking summertime Dutchie visitors about what works more directly than handsomeness, mia mucha.
But that is illegal here, needs to be consensual
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But that is illegal here, needs to be consensual
I see what yer handsomies are crying over now. :smoking:
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Originally Posted by
LeftEyeNine
I see what yer handsomies are crying over now. :smoking:
But that isn't a witty reply, got nothing to work with when it's like that, you could at least have the courtisy to act offended.
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Every spam needs a decisive strike, mia latté.
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Originally Posted by
a completely inoffensive name
MAH BOI! Nothing much man! Just enjoying my winter break. You?
Same here, brah, same here! Jus' a young n8ive out ta get payed, you know? Fo real! We dont caaaaaare, we souljahs! It's time to bump!
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Originally Posted by Swissland
Can't if want you what is taken by another person.
Heeeeey man, the world isn't fair. At all. It never is. If you want something in life, you need to take it! **** the obstacles, man! Opportunities come, and opportunities go. Don't let them slip away, brah!
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Originally Posted by
Megas Methuselah
Same here, brah, same here! Jus' a young n8ive out ta get payed, you know? Fo real! We dont caaaaaare, we souljahs! It's time to bump!
Heeeeey man, the world isn't fair. At all. It never is. If you want something in life, you need to take it! **** the obstacles, man! Opportunities come, and opportunities go. Don't let them slip away, brah!
Swissland...... You a nutjob Megas, but in a good, laughable way.:laugh4:
So you want me to play the game and snub off the boyfriend who apparently was brought one of those fancy Zune blackberry phone thingies by the girl I like.
Sure, if you don't mind me having my throat slit. :laugh4:
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Instead of lamenting, you should pick up the pieces of a broken opportunity and/or relationship, and put them back together in another. Crying is for the weak! Grrrrrr!
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Originally Posted by
AntiKingWarmanCake88
Women? How much suceuss do you have with the ladies? I myself actually have small sucess, but nothing to eat Cashews and Milk over though sadly.
Absolutely none. and no longer interested in even trying.
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Originally Posted by
Ibrahim
Absolutely none. and no longer interested in even trying.
Hey, you're missing all the fun. Some of my best memories are with girls (both as just friends as well as the more romantic kind).
If you aren't in it for the frienship/romance, at least you will know when your striped shirt clashes with your checkered sweater.