Originally Posted by HoreTore
Well, england isn't made to be chivalrous, really. Though you can easily launch a crusade at the Moors as soon as you can get a diplomat to rome....
But it's not a very viable option, so if you want to be chivalrous playing as one of these factions, you'll either have to:
1. Let the enemy attack you with slightly higher odds(0.8 or less odds in your favour). Easiest way of doing, is to make a small stack of good troops, well suited to the enemy, stick them in their lands somewhere you have a defensive advantage, and wait for them to attack.
2. Attack them with odds less than 1:2. You can easily do this against a numerically superior opponent if they lack cavalry, as you can easily run your own cavalry around and smack them from behind.
If you do this in the first battle the general takes part in, he will be chivalrous. It's not hard at all to avoid dread traits, if you know what you're doing...