Quote Originally Posted by Sarathos View Post
... but I know I made the right decision in saying no because if i did say yes, although it would of happened, I know I would of regretted it.
Why would you've regretted it?
You were both comfortable with each other. You were both willing (or at least she was).
Wanting it to be extra special will only result in a dissapointment. You're first time is almost garanteed to be special on its own.
I can appreciate you're unwillingness to pressure a girl into something she doesn't want to do, willingly or unwillingly, but I don't see what kept you back.

You're first time is a huge barrier, even more so for a girl. But once you've done 'it', it's more or less just a next step in a relationship. Heck, I had sex for the first time after 1 year of being in a relationship. We had sex after maybe 4 days in my second serious relationship.

Whatever happens you're almost guaranteed to NOT regret you're first time. You may have read the story of my first time, which was anything but magical. And still I don't regret that first time and I doubt you will regret your first time.