Casual sex is good, or is it?

[Kadagar_AV]

Too much censorship on these boards.

[Seamus Fermanagh]

...I have a reservation for "Bitter" party of one...

[Kadagar_AV]

Too much censorship on these boards.

[Kadagar_AV]

Too much censorship on these boards.

[drone]

Is the list of flags in your sig the nationalities of all the snow bunnies you've hit?

[Kadagar_AV]

Too much censorship on these boards.

[JR-]

Is the list of flags in your sig the nationalities of all the snow bunnies you've hit?

playing the country game is the most intoxicating fun i have ever had in my life, 11 months of nailing chics of every nationality i came across.
kadagar is right, it is mostly about attitude and if you have it then you will not lack for talent.

my bedpost as such was an old map of the british empire, which over time had more and more of the worlds nations coloured in glorious pink.

then i met a lovely foreign girl and we have been together since, so no unhappy ending.

[edit] and yes, casual sex is awesome. [/edit]

[Yoyoma1910]

The fruit of the apple most sought is seldom sweet, my friend.



You could have skipped all that, moved to New York, become an artist, and had the same conclusions in a few weeks.

[Strike For The South]

This thread doesnt deserve my humor

[PanzerJaeger]

I used to adore girls, to follow their every whim. Today I am more likely to spit them in the mouth while having sex (most girls really like being dominated, even most girls who initially say they dont).

Oh boy.

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The only thing I can say is that you should treat women with respect as equals. Don't worship them, and certainly don't treat them like crap. A healthy relationship - or even a healthy one night stand that won't make you feel bad in the morning - is built on honesty and equality.

[Hooahguy]

The only thing I can say is that you should treat women with respect as equals. Don't worship them, and certainly don't treat them like crap. A healthy relationship - or even a healthy one night stand that won't make you feel bad in the morning - is built on honesty and equality.

aye-
having been through 3 relationships (2 with the same girl ) i can say that yes, this is very, very true.

[drone]

In all fairness, any man who lets his significant other go off on a skiing holiday without him is just asking for trouble. This was true 10 years ago when I used to ski, and apparently it's true today. If it's not the ski instructors, it's all the other skiers/boarders.

[Kadagar_AV]

Too much censorship on these boards.

[Strike For The South]

SFTS, actually I dont think I have left many scarred persons in my wake. Don't get me wrong, I do still have morals.

Well you're lying to yourself.

[Rhyfelwyr]

Well I've got absolutedly no experience with these matters but I think PJ hit the nail on the head.

When you're at the one extreme of thingking they're angels, then its understandable that things don't go your way and so you flip and go in the opposite direction of thinking they are scum.

Just remember that they are equal, don't let your personal experiences cloud your mind. You had problems in the past, but now you know that you're quite capable of getting a proper girlfriend, and the sooner you do that the better because then you will feel better and reach the balance you've been looking for, and other relationships won't get damaged in the process.

[Koga No Goshi]

Kadgar, seriously, I believe you should consider that this may be a problem.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_addiction

[TinCow]

If you don't trust your partner not to cheat on you, then you're with the wrong person.

[Meneldil]

Oh boy.

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The only thing I can say is that you should treat women with respect as equals. Don't worship them, and certainly don't treat them like crap. A healthy relationship - or even a healthy one night stand that won't make you feel bad in the morning - is built on honesty and equality.

Unhappilly, that's not how it works, except in the rare case you find the Truly Beloved One.

In High School, I used to be like Kadagar_AV, kind of shy, romantic, intellectual (or at least pretending to be smart), treating girls as princesses and I only ended up as the 'absolute best friend' of all the hottest girls around there.
Obviously, I never got laid with any of them. Sure, they would come to me to explain how their actual boyfriend was an ass who treated them like crap. But sexual relation? No way, because you know, we're friends (the best part was when they asked "Why can't I find a nice guy like you ?", how many time have I heard that crap )

Then I went to the University, got new friends, who used to go to the Pub/Night Club quite often. So to the Pub I went. There I quickly discovered that there's actually no freaking point in being a gentleman. To get laid, you have to act as a jerk, to talk dirty, etc. That's stupid, but that's how it work unfortunaly.
Some girls (and let me emphazise on *some*) are actually attracted by charming, non-jerk people, but they're usually already in a relationship or simply not sexually attractive.

So now, I act as a gentleman with my female friends (just because I like to be a dandy), act as a jerk with girls met at the Pub and still see the only girl I ever fall in love with (and with who hopefully nothing will ever happen) as some kind of celestial-supernatural-creature.

Now, mind you, I'm only 22, so I don't know how things go later on, but according to Kadagar, it doesn't really turn out better, and that is quite disheartening.

Kadgar, seriously, I believe you should consider that this may be a problem.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_addiction

So hum, do you have any idea why so many students from basically all over the world go to the Pub as often as possible ? Yeah, that's it, because they want to get laid. It's actually quite ridiculous that young people have to get drunk and waste hundred of dollars per months to have some pleasure together. Wanting to have sex more than once every three weeks isn't sexual addiction. Or if it is, well I guess 90% of the western population under 40 is addicted to sex.

[Vladimir]

You doubt the true path?! You must ask the master for forgiveness.