I don't think I'm necessarily right either Kadagar, but I do think something is wrong to engage in this kind of behavior casually.

And I'm not a Christian, or super thumping moralist or anything. So I'm saying it without judgment, just an observation.

Like the honeymoon one, I was aware she was tehre with her new husband, what made me do it was actually curiosity... "Will she really..."
This is very sociopathic sounding. I would seriously treat this as a problem. You should talk to a professional of some sort.