I'm just saying that if my wife cheated on me, I would instinctively hate the guy who she cheated with as much if not more than her. It's not certainly not noble, or right, or fair, but it is the truth.
My "archaic" view of women is that, being human beings, they like me are capable of making poor decisions that they will later regret. So yes, I tend to think they are rather less at fault than the guy waiting ready to take full advantage of those poor decisions without apparent concern for the damage they will cause.
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