so, returning to this game...

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1. Kingdoms patched to 1.4, links are found on google. edit: i felt like providing at least one link: https://forums.totalwar.org/vb/showp...39&postcount=1 for patch.
2. I would suggest either the 2 hander modfix by FactionHeir (In the vanillamod subforum hosted mod) or the other one (found by searching the citadel)
For others, I dont think they can/are fixed outside of a major mod at least
For morale, just preferences.txt and turn morale off.