Quote Originally Posted by Fragony View Post
That is called selfconcious humour you Americans are masters at it. Ok listen up it works like this. No, she's (probably) not going to say yes, now she controls you. So you must try to date the other two, to let her know that you might be interested, but there are other options, and she is in fact not in control you are a master of your own situation, confident, and actually have other options. That turns them all green.
This. You don't even have to be serious about trying to date one of the others, just let her see you chatting up other girls. If she thinks you are hanging on her every move, especially at this early stage, she will utterly abuse you. Remember rule #1: women are evil.