Girl Help Cont.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 09-10-2009, 18:59

Originally Posted by Sarmatian

Yep but in Eastern Europe, we stop being grounded when we're 7... It's different in America

actually, I've only been grounded a couple times in 14 years of life, but I know that lots of people aren't as well behaved or persuasive as I.

To make up for it, my parents call it 'Restriction'. god, just saying that is scary...

**Ja'chyra** · 09-11-2009, 12:37

Ahh, teenage hormones, I remember the days well.

As for what to do.............try talking to her

I know, strange concept at that age but give it a go and see what happens, if she's not interested move on, you don't want to end up the guy that follows her around drooling, it won't help with your next victim/target/conquest either.

You: Hey, I've seen you around and was wondering if you'd like to go out one night?
Victim: Yeah sure, wait, aren't you that freaky guy that was stalking Tina?
You: Err, it wasn't like that.
Victim: Sorry, just remembered that I'd rather poke my own eyes out with rusty pins.
You:

Victim: (To other possible victims)Hey, guess who just asked me out............

^ Try to avoid that

**Prussian to the Iron** · 09-11-2009, 13:33

did you not read the other posts? I already asked her out, she said she was grounded.

to further complicate things, she got into an extended and loud screaming match with one of the other girls on the team (one of the ones I was thinking about asking out). So sh'es gonna be in trouble now. but maybe I can use this to my advantage by talking to her on tuesday about it? making her think she's right(because she wasn't, BTW)? or should I make her jealous and tell the other girl she's right?

**Peasant Phill** · 09-11-2009, 14:53

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

did you not read the other posts? I already asked her out, she said she was grounded.

to further complicate things, she got into an extended and loud screaming match with one of the other girls on the team (one of the ones I was thinking about asking out). So sh'es gonna be in trouble now. but maybe I can use this to my advantage by talking to her on tuesday about it? making her think she's right(because she wasn't, BTW)? or should I make her jealous and tell the other girl she's right?

So did you talk to her or not?
Oh and about the argument, don't get involved! NEVER get involved in a teenage girl argument, you'll always lose.

**naut** · 09-11-2009, 15:38

Originally Posted by Peasant Phill

Oh and about the argument, don't get involved! NEVER get involved in a teenage girl argument, you'll always lose.

One of those times when either of them start whinging and the only thing you say is "Yes." and nod your head. Don't weigh in. Making her jealous now might not be the best idea. But, at least it lets you know a bit more about her, i.e. that she is a bit temperamental (?) or so it would seem since she got into an argument and grounded with in the last few weeks alone.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 09-11-2009, 15:41

Originally Posted by Peasant Phill

So did you talk to her or not?
Oh and about the argument, don't get involved! NEVER get involved in a teenage girl argument, you'll always lose.

didn't get a chance to; she left 10 minutes before everyone else. I probably should've gone with her and tried to calm her down, but not sure how that would have gone.

so, should I just tell her she's right, or not say anything period?

**Philippus Flavius Homovallumus** · 09-11-2009, 18:13

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

didn't get a chance to; she left 10 minutes before everyone else. I probably should've gone with her and tried to calm her down, but not sure how that would have gone.

so, should I just tell her she's right, or not say anything period?

Don't play any games, you don't have the necessary skills yet. Women come with thse pre-loaded, men learn them. It's really simple, next time you see here you say:

Are you still grounded?

If she says yes you say:

So maybe I could have your number and call you some time?

She says No = GAME OVER, she says yes, you get the number and call her in a couple of weeks.

If she's not grounded, ask if she'd like to go out some time, say later in the week.

Really, talking to women is easy, I nearly asked the girl in the Jewelers out today (needed a new watch), I didn't because I'm leaving the city next week and I don't know if/when I'll be back.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 09-11-2009, 18:37

so don't mention the fight?

**drone** · 09-11-2009, 14:59

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

to further complicate things, she got into an extended and loud screaming match with one of the other girls on the team (one of the ones I was thinking about asking out).

Oooh, catfight!