Quote Originally Posted by Beskar View Post
I am guessing his wife doesn't know about the affair, or does she?
I don't know, I never met his wife. I know she has the kid and they're in a state far away, which might tend to make anybody a little crazy.

I have been considering reporting him coming through the neighborhood to the police, but the second time I caught his eye and he just nodded his head. I do wonder if bringing the police in might not trigger him to escalate matters. He is a gun owner, heck, practically everyone is here (I am as well) but I genuinely don't want believe it would come to that point. The man has a son who has played with my daughter. I've shaken his hand and looked in his eyes. If he's planning to be that crazy all I can do is wait and respond in kind.

I can definitely say I don't have enough grounds for a restraining order, and if by some chance he lives in the neighborhood, or is staying with someone here, it couldn't possibly do any good anyway.

I appreciate all your advice, I truly need some outside perspective on the situation.