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Monk, how do I unlock the romance options for Leliana as a male, is it only after a certain time or something? I am up to the Leadsmeat and she has had basically no talk options all game, except for after the Urn.
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Romance options are born over the course of the entire game. I had to spend the entire main plot woo'ing her to get anywhere, and I'd imagine it's the same for the others. There should also be a point at which you express your interest, normally in the first camp conversation. If you miss that you might have missed your chance.

If you want to get any party member to like you just bring them along on the main plot quests. Invariably you'll do something they either approve of or disprove of - just follow their advice to get massive bonuses to their influence.

If that fails load her up with some gifts. Leliana likes holy symbols of the Chantry and Andraste.