Well, I'm a bit sick of it always having to make me sad and cry, there are enough other reasons that make me sad and want to cry, if it gets too much I'll get depressions so I distance myself a bit from it, might make me look a bit hard at times but I prefer that over being depressed all the time, that doesn't help anyone either.
My grandmother came from eastern Prussia and doesn't like to talk about it, bit of a pity but I can understand and respect that, it was a horrible experience for her, no need to make her depressed either. Her husband died when I was one year old, I have no idea what he did during the war. My dad's family is dutch so they were certainly not in Siberia, most likely just going about their daily lives, his parents died long before I was born.
The typical problem with nation states is that I have to pay for Eastern Germany now after the Russians and Eastern Germans let it rot for 50 years and we even paid them to get it back. And on top of it, Louis told me, I have still to pay for something that an idiot, who wasn't even elected, decided in 1914.
On the other hand I view socialism and collectively helping the weak as something good though(to a certain reasonable extent), hypocrisy?
Now to somehow wind that back to the original topic, why would anyone get annoyed over this? If my grandpa had been a nazi, got shot and someone said it was right that he got shot, I would probably agree, just like I would not support my dad in or after murdering my mom or anyone's mom for that matter. If an old guy dies in prison because he was sentenced to 175 years and served only 25 of it, do you go and get his sons to imprison them for the remaining 150 years? If someone dies with a huge amount of debt do their kids have to pay for it? No? Then why does it work differently with nations and why do people get annoyed when someone calls their grandfather, or the grandfather of someone with the same passport a murderer? I personally find it somewhat irrational, but if you feel that way, as has been said, at least grow the bones to remove yourself from it and don't censor what others can say.
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