Dating Question: Which Woman?

[Shaka_Khan]

I met two girls recently, one two weeks ago and the other last week. Both of them seem to be interested in me. The problem is that I don't want to cheat. Both have their own good qualities. So I'm at a loss on which to choose.

I've been hearing people say that it's the inside that counts for a long long time. But when you think about it, it doesn't always mean that the outside is different from the inside. There are attractive people who have a good personality. So why not go for an attractive partner who has a good personality? And I think it's more to do with how well my partner matches with me. There could be a partner with a strange personality who matches well with me.

FIRST GIRL
She is a teacher.
She is thin and has a good figure. I had a good conversation with her. We continue to exchange messages. We seem to match well. She is 26 years old.
She has a very interesting personality. She is musically talented. She plays the electric guitar and the drum. When she was a teenager, she formed a band with her friends and played rock music. Now she is into jazz. She learned to play the piano as a kid but hasn't played in a long time. She is learning it again now. She is into musicals too. I got into it thanks to her. Her mind has a huge depth of musical feelings and knowledge. She shows me a part of a world that is new to me.
If it wasn't for her huge chin then I would've tried to meet her again. Since I met her only once, I probably know only a small part of her personality. I don't know how her temper is for example.

SECOND GIRL
She is a college student.
She is thin and has a good figure. In addition, she is tall and has long legs. She usually wears a mini, so I can see her legs often. She is an awesome sight, which attracts attention from other people. She is 21 years old.
I met her at a club. Although she didn't talk as much as the first girl, she still seems to like me. She likes to drink. I mean, she drinks bottles, not with a glass. It was on this third day of meeting me that she got drunk and showed her inner feelings. She slowly approached and kissed me. It was a long kiss. Then she made a beautiful smile, a very happy smile. It feels good to see her like me that much.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with her looks.
Plus, she is wild and is fun to be with. (She excites me). She was pretty funny when she couldn't walk straight and couldn't balance on her high heels because she was so drunk. But sometimes she gets too wild. She yells at the waitor and sometimes at me. Also, I don't think she trusts me. She makes accusations from time to time.

Both girls have their own strong points. I'm wondering which is better for me in the long run.

[al Roumi]

Both girls have their own strong points. I'm wondering which is better for me in the long run.

Are you really sure that's what you are looking for: the long run? Reading your post it seems to me you might be looking for an excuse to go with #2: the precocious, unstable, attractive young student

In any case, unless you are obliged to enter into something contractual (engagement etc) before you can properly get to know either, i don't think you should get ahead of yourself on the "long term" thing -do you even know if that's what they might want?

I'd suggest going ahead with the parrallel dating until you get to the point of being seriously intimate (take whatever that means for you!) with one or the other. At that point I think you should draw a line and make a decision between them.

[Fragony]

That's what we call a luxory-problem

[Sasaki Kojiro]

I don't see how you could possibly tell which would be better for you in the long run, given that you met them so recently.

[Kagemusha]

You have to decide yourself.First ask yourself what you want and then make your move based on that.

[Jolt]

Have sex with both at the same time. Tell them whoever is best wins you over.

[Strike For The South]

both

[drone]

You could always choose the same way the guy on the Bachelor chooses. Which one has the bigger rack?

[gaelic cowboy]

Demand an inspection of there funbags whoever has the bra off first is the winner problem solved

[CrossLOPER]

Quit diddling drunk girls and date both.

[Strike For The South]

Quit diddling drunk girls and date both.

What? Why?

[Myrddraal]

Wait, did you want a serious answer, or an outpouring of testosterone on the scale of the Ixtoc I spill?

For those who don't know, :

Ixtoc I was an exploratory forum post in the Gulf of Backroom, about 600 miles (970 km) south of the U.S. State of Texas. On June 3, 1979, the well suffered a blowout and is recognized as the second largest testosterone spill in history.

Mexico's government-owned oil company Shaka-Khan (Petróleos Khanes Mexicanos) was drilling a 2-mile (3.2 posts) deep relationship question, when the thread lost moderator circulation. In modern online forum drilling, moderators are circulated through the forum and back up the sub-forums to the surface. The goal is to equalize the pressure through the forum and to monitor the returning posts for "hot air". Without the circulating moderators, the thread ran into high pressure pent-up testosterone in the .org membership (known as a blowout). The thread got very steamy and the participating members had to take cold showers.

[Louis VI the Fat]

I met two girls recently, one two weeks ago and the other last week. Both of them seem to be interested in me. The problem is that I don't want to cheat. Both have their own good qualities. So I'm at a loss on which to choose.

I've been hearing people say that it's the inside that counts for a long long time. But when you think about it, it doesn't always mean that the outside is different from the inside. There are attractive people who have a good personality. So why not go for an attractive partner who has a good personality? And I think it's more to do with how well my partner matches with me. There could be a partner with a strange personality who matches well with me.

FIRST GIRL
She is a teacher.
She is thin and has a good figure. I had a good conversation with her. We continue to exchange messages. We seem to match well. She is 26 years old.
She has a very interesting personality. She is musically talented. She plays the electric guitar and the drum. When she was a teenager, she formed a band with her friends and played rock music. Now she is into jazz. She learned to play the piano as a kid but hasn't played in a long time. She is learning it again now. She is into musicals too. I got into it thanks to her. Her mind has a huge depth of musical feelings and knowledge. She shows me a part of a world that is new to me.
If it wasn't for her huge chin then I would've tried to meet her again. Since I met her only once, I probably know only a small part of her personality. I don't know how her temper is for example.

SECOND GIRL
She is a college student.
She is thin and has a good figure. In addition, she is tall and has long legs. She usually wears a mini, so I can see her legs often. She is an awesome sight, which attracts attention from other people. She is 21 years old.
I met her at a club. Although she didn't talk as much as the first girl, she still seems to like me. She likes to drink. I mean, she drinks bottles, not with a glass. It was on this third day of meeting me that she got drunk and showed her inner feelings. She slowly approached and kissed me. It was a long kiss. Then she made a beautiful smile, a very happy smile. It feels good to see her like me that much.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with her looks.
Plus, she is wild and is fun to be with. (She excites me). She was pretty funny when she couldn't walk straight and couldn't balance on her high heels because she was so drunk. But sometimes she gets too wild. She yells at the waitor and sometimes at me. Also, I don't think she trusts me. She makes accusations from time to time.

Both girls have their own strong points. I'm wondering which is better for me in the long run.

I don't think I'd get along with girl #2. The skirt's too short, the heels are too high, she likes attention too much. She yells at waiters. She's not for me.


Girl #1 has a huge chin. While not easy on the eyes, it means her mouth is big and sufficiently deep for a man of my 'specialty' etc etc [/Ixtoc_I]

[Cute Wolf]

If you want to had a stable long-run relationships, choose girl #1

But giving your actions, it was not a bad things... doing everything you want with girl #2, as long as you didn't have any relationship commitments with girl #1

[a completely inoffensive name]

To those saying both, that's impossible unless you had a million dollars. What you need to do is to let the free market decide and have them openly compete over you, you do this by telling them that you have an incurable disease and a lot of inheritance money that you havent spent and then tell them that you want to spend your last year being happy...etc. Once you have them compete, do what you want till you know which one you want then after a year say that your money was well spent on experimental treatments and that despite the odds you survived.

If there is one thing I have learned in the backroom, it is to always lets the free market and competition decide your life.

[al Roumi]

Wait, did you want a serious answer, or an outpouring of testosterone on the scale of the Ixtoc I spill?

For those who don't know, :

Girl #1 has a huge chin. While not easy on the eyes, it means her mouth is big and sufficiently deep for a man of my 'specialty' etc etc [/Ixtoc_I]

[Husar]

Uhm, no, that wouldn't work out too well, there would be a monopole on his side and a duopole on their side, this basically means he wouldn't be a pricetaker and they would also offer less goods than a really competitive market would.

It's (not scientifically)correct that girl 2 doesn't sound too good, yelling at waiters and waitresses is not very fine in my book, however if you're such an ********** too, maybe she suits you, how am I supposed to know?

In the end it's your decision, I cannot tell you what you have to like and what not.
Well, I can, but I shouldn't

[Kurando]

I have one suggestion of a particular question you can ask them, which, in my considerable experience, will tell you EVERYTHING you need to know to make an informed choice.

Approach this question carefully so they don't panic, but all you need to do is to ask each of them to describe their relationship with their father. I know it sounds strange, but I wouldn't lead you astray. If you're dealing with women in their 20's, you can almost guarantee that a messed-up answer to that particular question will lead to a messed-up situation between you and the gal.

[Beskar]

If you consider number two, it is obvious you are not mature enough to make decisions on your own.

Reminds me of my cousin when he came to me about a similar thing, I said for him to stick to his current relationship. He now has a little girl, and he is in a happy relationship, if he ran off with this other girl, it only would have lasted a while and ultimately come to nothing.

So what are you actually asking? "I want a relationship, who to choose?" "I want to leave tiretracks with my manhood, which to choose?"

[Fragony]

It's (not scientifically)correct that girl 2 doesn't sound too good, yelling at waiters and waitresses is not very fine in my book

That wouldn't lead to much progress chez Fragony either, I hate that sort of behavior.

[The Stranger]

BOTH! if u cannot have both. Date Teach first and Student Second. Teach may get u good grades.

btw how old are u? what are ur preferences. if u want a stable relationship and teach is hot. chose teach.

unless ofcourse ur idea of a stable relationship is waking up one day in a trailer wondering what the F happened, who the hell are those 8 children that are running around. realise later they are yours when ur pregnant wife comes charging at you throwing everything she can reach for in the way. and then it dawns on u that u can never ever get out.

[Rhyfelwyr]

Girl 2. Because if you physically don't like something about the first one, then what's the point? I don't know why people talk about looks v personality because you wouldn't even consider someone if they weren't attractive.

I'm not saying she should be physically pefect but especially when it's a facial feature you really don't like, then I would forget her.

[KukriKhan]

Which Woman?

Which one knows her way around a kitchen, keeps a clean house/room, knows the value of a dollar, AND likes you?

Plus Kurando's idea:

...ask each of them to describe their relationship with their father.

will help accurately predict your's and her's relationship.

[Strike For The South]

I have one suggestion of a particular question you can ask them, which, in my considerable experience, will tell you EVERYTHING you need to know to make an informed choice.

Approach this question carefully so they don't panic, but all you need to do is to ask each of them to describe their relationship with their father. I know it sounds strange, but I wouldn't lead you astray. If you're dealing with women in their 20's, you can almost guarantee that a messed-up answer to that particular question will lead to a messed-up situation between you and the gal.

And then pick the crazy one!....or that's what I do...errr did haven't seen a woman since I met Louis

[The Stranger]

how huge is that chin exactly? can i have exact measurements please. i need that so i can make a balanced and allround desichin.

[Shaka_Khan]

Thank you all for your suggestions. Some are useful while others are funny. I'll tell you more in answer to your suggestions after I get to know the girls better. Your opinions may or may not influence my decision.

The student yells only when she is drunk. But that's the thing. She goes into an extreme transformation when she gets drunk (and she likes to drink). Sometimes she gets verbally abusive if I don't understand what she wants, which I usually have to figure out myself. The first time she did that was right before she kissed me for the first time after she drank six bottles of beer. She wanted to kiss me but I joked around. I had never kissed lip to lip to a young girl before. She never gets angry at me when she is sober. She is usually sweet to me. She forgets what happened when she was drunk though. I have to admit that it hurt my feelings when she couldn't remember how close our relationship got the drunken night before. She excites me and yet worries me at the same time. Sometimes I think she is an alcoholic.

The first part I noticed about the teacher was her chin. That is how conspicuous her chin is. Other than that, she is pretty fun to talk with.

Don't forget that both have a good figure. The student is tall with an attractive face in addition to having a good figure.

[naut]

Don't forget that both have a good figure.

You're from Texas correct? That's pretty much a given then.