Right, that's where it gets tricky, because to a certain extent the person is their beliefs. When you say a belief is ridiculous, you are calling a small part of them ridiculous. And it may be that a belief is a big enough deal that you lose respect for the person.
So saying "play the ball not the man" is a bit euphemistic, or equivocal or orwellian or two faced or whatever word I'm looking for here. You are always playing the man, it just seems to us that there's a proper way to do and an improper way.
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