
Originally Posted by
fallen851
Wow. I wish I had seen this thread earlier.
I am the proud owner of two Arabian horses, and I do not own a whip, crop or spurs. And I can tell you they are certainly not necessary for training. Most people want horse ownership and horse training to be fast and easy, but it isn't. Some people simply beat their horse into submission, but that isn't horse ownership. If you have a dog, and you just lock it up all the time to avoid behaviors, do you really own a dog in the sense of having a companion? No, you don't. Training is always best done with reinforcement, and not only does this train quicker than any type of punishment (it is always easier to learn when someone tells you what to do, instead of what not to do), it develops a relationship, rather than making the animal fear you.
A lot of the issue here is that your friends probably ride quarter horses, who are fat, dumb, slow and lazy, they were bred to be that way. Basically they are nice to ride around on real slow, someone I know says riding hers is like riding a couch. These are what the cowboys rode, and are nothing like "real" horses, such as anicent breeds like Arabians. In fact, most people are afriad of "real" horses. Arabians are well known for their tempers, and many people hate them because they think they are "uncontrollable" and they can be difficult to train. They want the easy way, so they buy a quarter horse and get a whip, and the quarter horse only does it because if it doesn't it gets hurt. If you try to whip certain Arabs, you'll be lucky to live to tell the tale. However, once you develop a real relationship with an Arabian, you have a very powerful and loving friend. One that is smarter, faster, can jump higher and is more intelligent than any quarter horse.
I would be willing to bet money that when your friends fall off their horse, their horse runs back to the barn in fear. When I fall off, my horse comes back and makes sure I am okay. This is because riding isn't work (as is can be for lazy quarter horses, who weren't bred for every kind of riding that people like to subject them too), it is fun for both of us, and we are a team.
Your friends should find a breed that suits the kind of riding they want to do. But that means they might have to do some work with the horse, instead of just whipping it. And as you know, our society today, unlike in previous times, is about all doing things the quick and easy way.
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