Quote Originally Posted by Secura View Post
One of the inevitabilities that I've found with a friends-with-benefits situation is that, at some point, one of you will develop feelings for the other and it just leads to awkwardness; the whole point of it is the casual, no-strings aspect. In this situation, the feelings are already established and even if she can turn them off and just see you as a sex object, you cannot do that yourself... she means more to you than that, I'm sure.
This. Apart from the fact that I'm against premarital sex anyway but in this case I'd advise against it, even if leaving all morality issues aside, simply because you will only get hurt even more. Sorry to hear about your "loss". You'll get better mate