An ethical question

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

There is a difference than not being attracted and being repulsed.

Were you a gigolo, you may have measure in place to assist you in "behaving and appearing" to be attracted.

Then suppose NaNa, the 400 pound one legged you tube sensation who never gets out of bed, is rolled in smelling like rotting turkey rolls. Now, you are repulsed.

While racism may be a factor in some cases, there are people who are genuinely repulsed by the thought of intimacey of other races. Making thme fight through this phobia is mental terrorism. You make them suck it up (LOL PUN) and drive on with the repulsive customer, you are linign yourselves up for prostitutes going on disability for PTSD

OK, so we're talking about preference then, not actual racism. As in, you don't necessarily expect someone to "go gay" for you and you therefore shouldn't expect them to "go black." Then you improperly defined the question, because what you are saying is that part of the service is a level a rapport, so we're not talking about your entry level street walker who closes her eyes, grits her teeth, and always shoots up at the beginning of the night.

To be honest, though, this argument shows why this trade is usually either illegal or highly restricted.

And to address your "get paid first" comment

A customer is nuying her time. It wastes her time to schedule an appointment and then a guys hows up without the agreed upon price. At this point, whether or not she gave the service is irrelevant, as she could have been with another, payung, non douchey customer

This happens in other trades - you have to put up with it. In other professions it isn't tolerated, so cash no service.

Believe it or not, but there are people in this world who will pay the girl, do the deed, then figure out where she stashed the money and steal it back. Or steal her purse. Or in some cases, outright tob her through force or fear. There are also some people who have their friends tail along and wait outside and suddenly we have a gang rape issue. There are also people who start the encounter and eviate from "the menu" in an attempt to get something the lady does not want to give.

The above things can be reduced with extra vetting, which costs time and money. OR, she could just cut out altogether the demographic with whom she experiences these issues the most.

I believe all this - it's an argument in favour of brothels, but it also argues against the whole trade because prostitution is pretty much the only trade which can vary from the highly professional to the amateur. The problem is, if you're willing to lie on your back and take it, literally, there'll always be some gormless twit willing to pay, or some bastard willing to use you.