Everyone first hates the world they are presented with. And they become angry. Then, after some time, they realize the intractable nature of the way things are. And they become despondent. Then, after even more time, they begin to see the good in what they initially dismissed and choose to identify themselves in the institutions they hated. And they become proud. Then, with a lot more time, they see society pass them by and finally understand the fragility of things and the malleability of institutions over time. And they become scared. Then, with a little more time, they die. And they become happy for once.

Save yourself from this morbid trip Greyblades and just skip step 1 and 2 and become proud, stubborn assholes like the rest of us, or be apathetic like the majority of society.