It's part of the problem I think, not the guns but the pressure. America is a pretty competitive place with some things, not all can cope with that. It must feel pretty bad to not have a date at prom-night for example. In another highly competitive country, Japan, I forgot what it's called but they simply lock theirselves up in their room to never get out of it again. Be all you can be is nonsense, there is no need to excell, ok will do The only talent I have is kissing, that's good because I like kissing. Pretty good dancer as well.