Marrige (not another Gay one)

[Strike For The South]

are yall do you want to
Im to young and refuse to allow just one woman to touch my body (now finding women who will do that is another matter )

[PanzerJaeger]

Im not married and I have no intention of ever being married. Does that mean I should choose "Mariage what tools" option?

[Strike For The South]

Im not married and I have no intention of ever being married. Does that mean I should choose "Mariage what tools" option?

yes yes it does or you could choose #6 and why dont you

[Gawain of Orkeny]

You left out a huge option. The being " I was" and now its great

[Strike For The South]

You left out a huge option. The being " I was" and now its great

Damn youre right

[PanzerJaeger]

yes yes it does or you could choose #6 and why dont you

Ok thanks.

[Ja'chyra]

are yall do you want to
Im to young and refuse to allow just one woman to touch my body (now finding women who will do that is another matter )

You'll learn You'll get married just as soon as she tells you to

[Kagemusha]

Im always looking for a next ex-girlfriend.

[The Stranger]

hmmmmmm just like me eh

[Del Arroyo]

Marriage is going to be necessary eventually. Though unless either American women or my view of them change, it won't be to one of them. If they want babies, let them go to the sperm banks, is my current feeling about them (and if they want commitment, they can date their vibrators).

I would like to have the option of polygamy, like maybe one starter wife, and then one or two younger ones when and if I get established and affluent. This may be tough to pull off, though. At any rate right now I'm in a transition phase so I'm not too concerned with women, and that's fine with me. They're all crazy anyway.

DA

[Papewaio]

Married

[Divinus Arma]

Chased plenty of tail when I was younger.

Sooner or later it becomes time to pick one and settle down.

Married five years. The wife is not too sharp, but she's hot and learning to be a good second-class citizen. JK kind of.

She is learning to adapt to her role as "support". I make the money and she does everything else. Best of all, she doesn't care what the hell I do with my free time and she cares not a lick that I'm a drunk. I can go out with the boys or sit at home and play RTW for eight hours a stretch. She's the best and I wouldn't trade her for anyone.

[GoreBag]

I'm not married and I will never be.

[bmolsson]

Being married is not a such big deal. I am married to 2 wives and this due to getting the kids the right citizenship. Having 2 wives is not as wonderful as it sounds, its a compromise which all parties agrees to and live by, even though all parties agree that its not the best for them individually (including me).

[Papewaio]

What would be better for your circumstance? 4 wives?

BTW are both your wives Indonesian? Java, Sumatra...

It might be easier raising children if the wives cooperate. As it is having one wife (and I don't want a second) the amount of time that it takes to raise a child is enourmous... thankfully we get lots of help from family.

[yesdachi]

I am married and it is great. But marriage is not for everyone and should be something done after living life for a while.

[English assassin]

Its going to sound rather obvious but it all depends who you are married to. I think marriage is great but if I had married some ball busting harridan it would be hell. But that wouldn't be the fault of marriage would it?

You'll learn You'll get married just as soon as she tells you to

You too, eh? Sometimes we men just don't know what we REALLY want, apparently...(annoyingly this turned out to be true)

[English assassin]

GC, no one is saying marriage has to be COMPULSORY. If DA likes his set up, fine. If it wouldn't work for you, fine too. You could always marry some hellcat psycho who would keep your life from being boring if you preferred.

I'll tell you what though, after a bit the tail chasing becomes just as much of a routine, if not more. Self indulgence is all very well but its like a diet of nothing but cakes, after a bit it starts making you feel a bit sick.

Having kids isn't a mistake BTW, its hilarious fun. When you want them, anyway.

[Ja'chyra]

Now you see, that kind of Mentality just makes me despair of the human race. I mean, sure, your end of the stick isn't necesarrily the short one (It'd suck being a woman who has to pump out babies, clean the house, take care of their babies, and try to make myself not wonder exactly what the husband is doing out so late.), but it's still a fixed routine that you are trapped in for life. Even with a Divorce, Marriage haunts you, especially if you made the mistake of having kids.

What age are you GC? You seem to have no clue what marriage is all about, it's a partnership not a sentence.

[UglyandHasty]

Married, with a 3 weeks old son. And i have voted Married and its allright. Why, not because i dont have a great relation, we almost never fight. But because living with another person mean you have to make compromise everyday. Its not always easy, but in my opinion, there's much more good than bad coming out of a mariage.


And now meet Alexandre

[Voigtkampf]

Nice kiddo, Uglyandhasty - fortunately, he reflects neither of your nick.

Narrowly escaped the clutches of marriage from my second fiancée. Love gone horribly wrong. And I was supposed to get married on the 24. of this month! Phew… Better to be alone in all eternity then with the devil on your back. But I still believe in marriage and consider anyone who doesn’t get married and has offspring to be deprived of the most important thing in life. But, with 28 I’m far from rushing anything any more. Letting things run their course.

[drone]

"Almost not quite" and fighting it every day

[Big King Sanctaphrax]

Hell no. The idea of some crazy bink running off with half my assests, and the kids, doesn't thrill me at all.

I'll get married when the divorce courts start treating men equitably. Even then, I might hold off. Who knows how you're going to feel about someone twenty years down the road? Seems a lot of fuss over piece of paper to me.

[ah_dut]

Well depends on the woman and how much crack I'm taking on the day :winky: No seriously though, maybe I'm just a coward but I agree with BKS a lot here (as usual)

[yesdachi]

Seems a lot of fuss over piece of paper to me.

prenup is another nice little piece of paper

[Big King Sanctaphrax]

Pre-nuptial agreements aren't legally binding in the UK.

[yesdachi]

Pre-nuptial agreements aren't legally binding in the UK.

How about faking your own death and moving to mexico? thats my back-up plan.

[Papewaio]

Two years today!

And to add to UglyandHasty's post.

Here is 7 week old Luke:

[ICantSpellDawg]

i think that marriage should be abolished as it is currently recognized by the state. the state should have civil unions only in which anyone is free to enter into any sort of contractual obligation with anyone else. marriage as an institution should be left to individual organizations of church/etc and recognized by the state only as civil unions. this would allow homosexuals to not feel discriminated agaisnt and the religious right to not contribute to a government that condones homosexuality as equal to marriage as a union - as it would now be entirely secularized. sexuality would no longer be an issue regarding a civil union as anyone could join into one.

as consummation of a marriage would no longer be necessary if homosexual marriages became legal, population in the world is now at a critical peak, love is a metaphysical concept based on faith that the governemnt should not recognize, culture is relative and not worth preserving as far as procreation is concerned, marriages work about as often as a coin toss pulls up heads, we seem to all be here killing time anyway, marriages exist for the subjugation of one partner in favor of the other, love has about as much to do with modern marriage as jesus had to do with the solar temple cult, etc - i dont see why this is a bad idea

an impractical one, yes
bad? i dont think so

what do you think?

[LeftEyeNine]

Wow ! I want a copy of this handsome Luke !

I wish for a life to share at all terms. Marriage makes you a "man", I think. Voluntary responsibility. The only way you can tidy up your life..

That's my two cents. I am 21 right now but wish it to happen as soon as I am financially independent.