I honored my friend the way he would have wanted me to. I went to Catholic Mass for the first time in 5 years (though I didn't take communion). I didn't see what posting here and having some wise alec talking about getting what we deserved or what's the big deal could possibly be productive, and Jim was all about focusing your energy where it might actually get you somewhere (a perspective he picked up as the pulling guard on our offensive line, a position I inherited when he graduated).