Quote Originally Posted by Big King Sanctaphrax
So if I drive drunk but don't hit anyone, that's cool?
I'm not sure that's such a good example. You probably know lots of people who have driven drunk before, and odds are you have yourself-- it just never got plastered all over the media machine for people to gawk at.

I've been in the passenger's seat a few times, and yeah, they didn't hit anyone, so I wasn't a dick about it. There have also been times when I have taken the keys away-- but, for example, "they need an act of congress to take my rank, now get in the g-damned car" can be kind of hard to argue with.

Handle things on a case-by-case basis and don't hold grudges.