Three weeks now, Budwise Situation with Ex Solved

**Budwise** · 11-12-2007, 23:55

Continued from https://forums.totalwar.org/vb/showthread.php?t=92286

Her and I don't talk anymore. I am having a severe attack in my legs due to MS and she couldn't even walk by at work and ask how I am doing so three days ago, I went up to her and told her I wasn't doing okay and she told me that she wasn't overweight and how I am no longer her favorite woman and how we shouldn't talk. Anyways, my new girlfriend Bethany is a little overweight (around 200lbs) but treats me very well and follows me. Shes never been with a boyfriend before so I am taking things EXTREMELY slow but with this girl, just talking is fine and I realised that with Lien it was just sex. I am more happy now then I have been in a long time and this girl enjoys all the things I enjoy. Because I am her first though, I make her answer questions first so she can't follow my answer.

I still miss Lien, but I miss the talks and the culture differences the most. There is a Khmer dance coming up on the fifth of next month and I am debating on asking her to go because Bethany and I would look funny and I still want to be her friend.

Lien is very hurt though, she won't TELL me but I know her, her boyfriend left her right after I started seeing Bethany at work and now I think shes alone, about to lose her house and is fronting CONSTANTLY to appear happy when shes not. I often see her staring blankly at walls or putting her head down at work but I pay attention to her less and less.

I consider this closed
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Hind note
I would really appreciate it if the power happy admins who have no power in real life would calm down here. They closed the thread where this last comment SHOULD GO, deleted her pictures although she said in the past I could post it and SHE DOESN"T EVEN PLAY GAMES NOR HER FRIENDS, it would require reading which she can't do. Even if she did play a game or her friends or ANYONE THAT SHE KNOWS does, M2TW wouldn't be it nor would they be looking it up in a message board.

Now, if LIEN HERSELF complained about the picture, I would understand removing it but that isn't the case. I haven't even checked yet but I bet they removed the pictures of the girls from Vietnam and that would be obsurd because they don't even read English, will never come to the US and if someone saw their picture and actually liked her, could help her come over and possibly HELP her life.

Anyways, I don't play M2TW so much right now so I think I will quit coming to this forum board for a while due to constant constraints of the admins.

**Fragony** · 11-13-2007, 00:22

Taking a deep breath would be a good start, it's life and without it you die.

**Beirut** · 11-13-2007, 01:53

Originally Posted by Budwise

Hind note
I would really appreciate it if the power happy admins who have no power in real life would calm down here. They closed the thread where this last comment SHOULD GO.

Now, if LIEN HERSELF complained about the picture, I would understand removing it but that isn't the case. I haven't even checked yet but I bet they removed the pictures of the girls from Vietnam and that would be obsurd because they don't even read English.

Anyways, I don't play M2TW so much right now so I think I will quit coming to this forum board for a while due to constant constraints of the admins.

Just for your information, it wasn't the "power happy admins" who closed your thread, it was a power hungry Frontroom mod. That would be me. And I've just had dinner and a beer so I'm about as calm as I can be. As for having no power in real life, well, she-who-must-be-obeyed rules my world, what can I tell you?

You posted a picture of someone and were writing extremely detailed personal information about them. That in itself is a bad idea here. Complaints were received and the pic was deleted.

If you wish to cease your Org. visits, that's up to you, but don't blame the admins, they had nothing to do with it. Also, keep in mind that you were given a ton of leeway with that thread, in space, context, and language. Even after you violated Org. rules several times you were still allowed to continue your thread. It was not closed until multiple complaints were received.

And there you have it.

**Ice** · 11-13-2007, 02:27

Originally Posted by Beirut

Just for your information, it wasn't the "power happy admins" who closed your thread, it was a power hungry Frontroom mod. That would be me. And I've just had dinner and a beer so I'm about as calm as I can be. As for having no power in real life, well, she-who-must-be-obeyed rules my world, what can I tell you?

You posted a picture of someone and were writing extremely detailed personal information about them. That in itself is a bad idea here. Complaints were received and the pic was deleted.

If you wish to cease your Org. visits, that's up to you, but don't blame the admins, they had nothing to do with it. Also, keep in mind that you were given a ton of leeway with that thread, in space, context, and language. Even after you violated Org. rules several times you were still allowed to continue your thread. It was not closed until multiple complaints were received.

And there you have it.

Kind of Random, Beirut, and not really on topic, but what kind of beer do you drink?

I'd always imagine you with a Canadian beer