
Originally Posted by
Koga No Goshi
From a legal perspective, Tuff, and it doesn't sound like you disagree from what I can tell--- marriage in the legal sense is nothing but a contract. That's all it is. The fact that marraige has a cultural and religious connotation subjective to people's unique backgrounds and upbringings is pretty much beside the point that in the eyes of the law, what marriage does is bestow certain tax implications, civil/domestic rights, medical rights and inheritance/property rights on a couple who are living together as a couple.
On a state-by-state level, the reason I think something like "state level civil contracts" are bad is because it's just begging to go to the Supreme Court anyway, when a backwards state that doesn't recognize civil unions or whatever chooses to deny one partner (recognized in a civil union in another state) hospital vistation, or goes against thier medical directives, or seizes their property and gives it to blood family instead of the civil union partner. But it doesn't sound like you disagreed much there either that it must be a state-by-state issue. I mention it because a state-based civil unions thing is a "Safe" political path that most people who I suspect really support gay marriage adopt to stay middle of the road and not alienate prejudiced voters. But it will never work if it's not Federal over all states, and if it is, then we are back to square one. Why have a separate contract that bestows exactly the same legal rights as marriage but just insist on calling it something different and giving it a totally different legal classification and title when it is presumably exactly the same thing, legally.
I don't think this is a legal problem in fact. I consider the legal aspect of gay marriage a slam dunk. No government state or Federal has the right to withhold legal benefits to life partners/couples on the basis that some religions and some moral value systems don't "like" the kind of couple in question. The problem is I believe social, the fact that people consider marriage irrevocably religious even though it ISN'T, and anyone can go get married by a Justice of the Peace. Some people view it as forcing "leftist values" into religion, which again is just ridiculous. Any church which does not wish to perform a certain kind of ceremony would never have to. But I agree with this one editorial I read a long time ago, that really, when it's all said and done, few people oppose it out of true religious fervor. It's the "ick factor." And it's zero-sum thinking. I'm not gay, I don't need it, I don't want to ever use it, it won't help me on a personal, direct level, so I'm against it, plus I think gay is gross. I think that's the strongest underlined explanation as to why we're still snagged on this issue, IMHO.
Wow off topic. Sorry. ;)
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