Asking a girl out via email: legit or not

**A Nerd** · 08-19-2010, 18:38

Nerd: Do you mean "submissive"? Otherwise I agree. Though the one time I did it, the email thread somehow turned into a discussion of "The Patriarchy" and ended with me thinking she is a raving feminist. Bullet dodged, then.

Yes I meant submissive. One must be subtle when applying my technique. If I read your post correctly, then you did everything on par, you discovered her all important personality thru honest discourse, ie. sincerity in words. On to the next one if she was unappealing, in my eyes, you lost none of your masculinity.

**Fragony** · 08-20-2010, 09:20

Lunch is supposed to be casual so why not.

**Alexander the Pretty Good** · 08-21-2010, 17:04

Heh, fun thread.

So I emailed her for her number then called her. Had to leave a message; she got back to me and said she was interested. Played phone tag for a while (she's pretty busy with work) but we worked out a mutually acceptable time and I'm going to see her on Friday. So there you go. :D

Part of the delay (both in working out a time and place and in replying to the thread) was I was on vacation in Canada. Terrible timing lol. So, thanks for your help guys.

**Hosakawa Tito** · 08-21-2010, 23:04

Excellent!

**Martok** · 08-22-2010, 17:36

Glad to hear it. I hope things go well on Friday!

**Beskar** · 08-22-2010, 18:23

After you got to know eachother very well. You should ask her, "if i asked you out in that email, would have you said yes?"

**A Nerd** · 08-22-2010, 19:59

"if i asked you out in that email, would have you said yes?"

Yes. I would like to know what her answer would be.

I am glad all worked out well for you!

**Megas Methuselah** · 08-23-2010, 01:23

Originally Posted by Alexander the Pretty Good

... I was on vacation in Canada-

Awesome! Where?

**Alexander the Pretty Good** · 08-23-2010, 06:24

Originally Posted by Beskar

After you got to know eachother very well. You should ask her, "if i asked you out in that email, would have you said yes?"

We'll see. :P

Originally Posted by Megas Methuselah

Awesome! Where?

All the touristy places around Niagara Falls, with my family.

**A Nerd** · 08-23-2010, 19:15

All the touristy places around Niagara Falls, with my family.

Ohhh, so romantic! Bring raincoats, and watch out for school teachers going over the falls in a barrell! :P

**Megas Methuselah** · 08-23-2010, 20:39

Originally Posted by Alexander the Pretty Good

All the touristy places around Niagara Falls, with my family.

Oh. Ok.

**Alexander the Pretty Good** · 08-24-2010, 04:01

Originally Posted by A Nerd

Ohhh, so romantic! Bring raincoats, and watch out for school teachers going over the falls in a barrell! :P

The Falls are beautiful (and the boat tours that bring you right up to them are pretty cool) but there are too many other tourists for me to really enjoy it. :P I think my favorite place to see was Fort George but I'm a history nerd and they had a musket firing demonstration. :P