@Ludens
The homosexual thing is not the only one in Ancient Roman society where you encounter the difference in submission.
Also oral sex was only a one way ticket (this is for heterosexual, i don't know for sure about the other). The woman pleasuring the man was considered nothing strange. But the other way around was looked down upon. This is from two viewpoints, the first being the one discussed here earlier (the one who pleasures the person is submitting to the other, a man could not submit to a woman). The other was that the man had to keep his mouth "clean" for orations. If the man pleasured the woman, the mouth of the man would be defiled and so his speeches would be polluted too.
My source is a Dutch magazine about history, called: Historia.
~Fluvius
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