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There are no morals to uphold in going for women. There is the sanctity of marriage which is universally looked down upon if one cheats with another person, people then try to apply that same principle to all levels of the relationship. That makes sense from one point of view. On the other hand, any bond of marriage is between two individuals only, and it doesn't make sense for outsiders to be held to that code. Especially when the code is applied for relationships between two non married people. The point of dating is to be with someone you think you will be happy with. It is inherently selfish in nature. If you can provide a more fulfilling relationship, then why is it wrong for a woman in any stage of a relationship to switch to the more fulfilling man? Because she made an oath to another person? When divorce occurs for 50% of all marriages it appears that is sacred oath isn't really regarded as one by the public at large.

You can choose whatever path you want to uphold, but you can't really get mad at a competitor ever choosing to go with the opposite path as you and succeeding. All in all you can argue that as long as you are a great partner, there would be no reason for your significant other to break up with you in the first place. After all, making the decision to choose someone else means putting in an investment of time before you really know if this person is truly better.
You know when people fall in love? Well sometimes they just fall out of love. It happens.