I am not at all trying to defame your character. There was no indication of sarcasm in that final reply of yours (the discussion on swearing). Maybe you meant it to be but it was not at all clear to me. Lets put an end to that discussion...
A little? In my eyes you were one of the more hardball Mods in here, so I can't really look at your current argument without wondering about the agenda. But that could be why you chose to create an alt to post this.And yes, perhaps I have loosened up a little, perhaps looking at this place from outside and from a new perspective does change things. It doesn't mean that I've deserted my previous views. Someones it's only those looking in from the outside can see the real problems.
Personally I don't think I have warned a single member in my career. A single unofficial PM has always sufficed.
Most members are "mature" even if they are 13.
You can still moderate the way you suggest without changing "the rules". If you clearly suggest that you would like for the patrons in a forum to behave a certain way, you do so simply and not with a heavy hand.
I believe it has worked in the gameroom, with much help from the established clientele and former excellent Mods.
ACIN in the gameroom is an exemplar of maturity and a respected player. He was indeed worried about elitism in the start but has since joined the rank of players with his valuable contribution. I am mentioning him because he doesn't exactly have a clean record elsewhere.
The gameroom is currently not open to all - something from your points might be looked into again.
The Avatar thing is to me not important at all. All though I was awarded a unique avatar once for my exemplary behaviour. I don't think Tosa is against personal avatars, but I guess he likes them to conform to a certain theme. Both mine and Andres' avatars are custom made. You only have to ask Tosa to load them in to the portfolio.
When I first joined up here 8 years ago, there was a member system based on post count. You couldn't choose the avatar, but it changed with the post count. I remember I liked it and it encouraged me to post more to get to the next level.
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