Women are confusing

**Strike For The South** · 03-25-2011, 02:24

Originally Posted by Prussian to the Iron

Flattery (as long as you honestly mean it) will get you anywhere. Making her feel good will get you anywhere. Regardless of the situation.

No.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 03-25-2011, 02:42

Originally Posted by Strike For The South

No.

Yes. yes it will. You cannot fade on that. That is the essence of truth.

I mean, flattery is a nasty word, but it was the first word that came to mind.

heart-felt compliments to her, her personality, and her looks, will always warm her heart towards you. when I do it, it's not conciously, but I do do it, I can't deny.

**Strike For The South** · 03-25-2011, 02:48

Originally Posted by Prussian to the Iron

Yes. yes it will. You cannot fade on that. That is the essence of truth.

I mean, flattery is a nasty word, but it was the first word that came to mind.

heart-felt compliments to her, her personality, and her looks, will always warm her heart towards you. when I do it, it's not conciously, but I do do it, I can't deny.

Your advice is terrible

Stop giving it

**Prussian to the Iron** · 03-25-2011, 04:18

Originally Posted by Strike For The South

Your advice is terrible

Stop giving it

it works.

**Strike For The South** · 03-25-2011, 04:31

Originally Posted by Prussian to the Iron

it works.

In horrid B grade comidies maybe

**Tuuvi** · 03-25-2011, 07:09

So in hindsight, I think maybe you should've just waited a couple weeks and then asked her if she had gotten her new phone yet. But on the other hand, it was a pretty lame excuse, I mean a few weeks is actually sort of a long time, why couldn't she have given you her number and then given you the new one when she got a new phone? Maybe she was telling the truth, she just wasn't thinking things through all the way and she just blurted out "there's really no point...". I know I've done that before.

I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. You never know when someone is telling the truth and when they are lying, the best thing you can do is have confidence in yourself and take what they say as the truth until they give you reason to believe otherwise.

It sounds like the girl is interested in you, and even if she's not you have a good opportunity to make friends with her so either way you win. The next time you see her you should definitely ask her out to dinner or something, maybe you can say it's to celebrate the end of the class or something

I hope my lame advice helps and it's not "friend zone" advice this time

**A Nerd** · 03-25-2011, 09:14

There is no shame in complimenting someone you are fond of. If she is attactive and you say so, what is the harm in that? I fail to agree with those who say you should play the dominant role in a relationship and train your partner to follow you by a leash. Doesn't everyone like to be flattered, sinceridly, male or female?

**Subotan** · 03-30-2011, 18:12

*Lights pipe to give an aura of wisdom, takes a few puffs*

Here's a suggestion:

*Takes pipe out of mouth to add to the mystique*

Get one of your mates to set you up for a blind date.

*Puts pipe back into mouth and takes a final puff to complete the illusion*

**Prussian to the Iron** · 03-30-2011, 22:59

Originally Posted by Subotan

*Lights pipe to give an aura of wisdom, takes a few puffs*

Here's a suggestion:

*Takes pipe out of mouth to add to the mystique*

Get one of your mates to set you up for a blind date.

*Puts pipe back into mouth and takes a final puff to complete the illusion*

Can somebody please explain to me why I saw and heard this as if Ralph Brown was doing it, in a rocking chair?

*For those of you unaware, Ralph Brown was the guy in Waynes World 2 who told the story about Ozzy and the Tiger in the Candy shop.

**Subotan** · 03-30-2011, 23:15

I was going for something along the lines of Tony Benn (Who I met a few weeka go and I got my picture with him SO AWESOME), so I honestly have no idea.