So, I was called a slut?

[Prussian to the Iron]

First off, I think this requires some back-story. I recently started working at a movie theater by my house, and it's pretty great. 2nd day working there one of my fairly good-looking co-workers asked me out, so I said yes and we made out and she drove me home. I may have given the impression that we were henceforth dating. That was Monday. We'll call her Red. Then yesterday (Tuesday, in case your time-zone is in some place that would change that), I asked a different, far hotter co-worker (who will be called Green) if she wanted to see Conan with me after work. I intended this to be just as friends.

Well, somewhere along the way, we had a really long deep talk about her and all her problems and what not, and she obviously took a liking to me just before we went into the movie. We came out and now the talk of the whole theater is how we were making out. Which is fine.

Buuuuuut, I texted Red (seeing as she doesn't work at all this week and I have no way of talking face-to-face), and said, very politely and gently, that we weren't gonna work out. She replied "I understand. Have fun with Green :)". Seeing as how I know she doesn't have the phone numbers of anyone who worked there that night, and she said this only 10 minutes after we left the theater, I asked how she knew already. Red told me that

"I went to the theater after work (at a pizza place) and everyone was talking about how you're a slut."


So. I'm not entirely sure if she's being bitter, insulting me, making a joke, or what. What do you guys think? I don't know what to make of it

[johnhughthom]

Only girls can be sluts.


edit: You are a dude, right?

[Prussian to the Iron]

Yes I am a dude, and Red and Green are both chicks

[The Stranger]

not again XD

if u can get 2 different girls in 2 days why are u asking for advice on a game-forum -_- or are u just trying to get Warman jealous?

[johnhughthom]

In my experience getting involved with people you work with can only lead to complications, whether you date one or all of them.

[Montmorency]

Didn't your momma ever tell you to be careful what you do and not go around breaking young girls' hearts?

[johnhughthom]

Didn't your momma ever tell you to be careful what you do and not go around breaking young girls' hearts?

Well, we all know what happened to the fella that followed that advice.

[Monk]

Stop showing off and enjoy your life.

[Prussian to the Iron]

Stop showing off and enjoy your life.

As much as I'd like to show off, I'm genuinely not getting what she meant by that and it kinda disturbs me.

[The Stranger]

lol... how can u not get it. she is obviously displeased that u went and kissed some other chick. now she feels inferior and she will hate your guts for the rest of her life no matter how polite she may act in your face.

(she might not actually feel inferior, that was added for dramatic effect, tho it might be true)

[Subotan]

Nope, as guys can't be sluts. When a guy behaves like a slut, he gets called a player. Unfortunately, you haven't really behaved like a player, and this is why:

First off, I think this requires some back-story. I recently started working at a movie theater by my house, and it's pretty great. 2nd day working there one of my fairly good-looking co-workers asked me out, so I said yes and we made out and she drove me home. I may have given the impression that we were henceforth dating. That was Monday. We'll call her Red. Then yesterday (Tuesday, in case your time-zone is in some place that would change that), I asked a different, far hotter co-worker (who will be called Green) if she wanted to see Conan with me after work. I intended this to be just as friends [LIES ~ Subotan]. Well, somewhere along the way, we had a really long deep talk about her and all her problems and what not, and she obviously took a liking to me just before we went into the movie [Rubbish ~ S]. We came out and now the talk of the whole theater is how we were making out. Which is fine [If it was, you wouldn't be posting here. ~ S].

Buuuuuut, I texted Red [That's cold ~ S] (seeing as she doesn't work at all this week and I have no way of talking face-to-face), and said, very politely and gently, that we weren't gonna work out.

And blah blah blah some stuff about how she found out about it which doesn't matter. What does matter is that you were extremely shallow. Dumping a girl you were going out with after a single day in preference of one who is cuter? The only thing more baffling than the turn of events itself is that you have to come here asking us to identify where you went wrong.

She will hate your guts for the rest of her life no matter how polite she may act in your face.

And you have to work with her! Ahahahahaaa

[rasoforos]

As much as I'd like to show off, I'm genuinely not getting what she meant by that and it kinda disturbs me.

Dont worry. During your lifetime you will very regularly fail to make sense of what chicks say to you. This, and I cannot emphasise this enough, is not your fault.

You are going to have trouble making sense outta chicks at least 5 days out of each and every month...

Enjoy life you lucky lucky #$%#2 :)

[rajpoot]

In my experience getting involved with people you work with can only lead to complications, whether you date one or all of them.

This.

Never date where you have to go everyday. If things don't work out you're stuck with a lot of unpleasantness.
And men can't be sluts. They can be playboys. Which isn't entirely a bad thing if you can manage it properly.

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

not again XD

if u can get 2 different girls in 2 days why are u asking for advice on a game-forum -_- or are u just trying to get Warman jealous?

I just came from class with two hot girls, one on my left directly, one on me right.


Dude, enjoy the hot chick time.

[Drunk Clown]

...and she (Red) drove me home.

...you're a slut.

What are you? Her submissive one?

[The Stranger]

I just came from class with two hot hands, one on my left directly, one on me right.


Dude, enjoy the hot shake time.

fixed.

[Centurion1]

the girl is insulting you dimwit how is that not clear. while society may laud your efforts she doesn't appreciate it. Nobody wants to be called a slut and being a man slut is not a positive in society (A man can hook up in ways and with enough people that it becomes a negative even in fellow mens eyes)

[Subotan]

This, and I cannot emphasise this enough, is not your fault.

Actually, it is completely his own fault. Let us look at PI's actions step by step, stripped of all the fluff and denial.

1. Girl at his workplace, Red, asks PI out, and clearly wants to have a go at a relationship. PI agrees.
2. PI then almost immediately goes behind Red's back and propositions Green, as Green is more physically attractive than Red. Green accepts.
3. Red finds out about this, presumably by talking to workmates who saw PI carry out step two. PI then sends a text to Red, who passive-aggressively tells him that she's hurt by this.
4. PI is confused and asks a video game forum for help on understanding these crazy chicks.

I just came from class with two hot hands, one on my left directly, one on me right.


Dude, enjoy the hot shake time.

fixed.

Fantastic.

[Prussian to the Iron]

Actually, it is completely his own fault. Let us look at PI's actions step by step, stripped of all the fluff and denial.

1. Girl at his workplace, Red, asks PI out, and clearly wants to have a go at a relationship. PI agrees.
2. PI then almost immediately goes behind Red's back and propositions Green, as Green is more physically attractive than Red. Green accepts.
3. Red finds out about this, presumably by talking to workmates who saw PI carry out step two. PI then sends a text to Red, who passive-aggressively tells him that she's hurt by this.
4. PI is confused and asks a video game forum for help on understanding these crazy chicks.


Fantastic.

Well not exactly. like i said, i genuinely meant to go as friends, but we started talking and that changed. the rest sounds really bad when you put it that way

[Moros]

A guy with a lot of one night stands is a player.

A guy who follows his **** and acts like a **** is quite the ****. Sorry. But she's right.

[a completely inoffensive name]

You are a slut. Call me.

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

fixed.

A brunette and a red head, real girls, not my hands. Unless the 1 hour 5 minutes I spent in class today was just a dream.

[Peasant Phill]

Que awkward silences and hate-fueled looks next time you work together.
You reap what you saw.

But:
Yes, there were times, I'm sure you knew
When I bit off more than I could chew
But through it all, when there was doubt
I ate it up and spit it out
I faced it all and I stood tall and did it my way.

You'll learn to face the consequences of your actions and maybe even forsee them before you act.
Be a nice guy and apoligise to Red. It's the proper thing.

[The Stranger]

What are you? Her submissive one?

her submissive one... je jujubee thats harsh XD u shouldve taken it out alltogether less painfull

[The Stranger]

So i dressed up two hands. A brunette hand and a red hand, real hands, not my hands. Unless the 1 hour 5 minutes I spent infront of class today dressing them up was just a wet dream.

fixed it again!

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

fixed it again!

[Poulp']

So many lesson about life in this thread.

Dont worry. During your lifetime you will very regularly fail to make sense of what chicks say to you. This, and I cannot emphasise this enough, is not your fault.
You are going to have trouble making sense outta chicks at least 5 days out of each and every month...

My uncle told me roughly the same thing 17 years ago.

[Drunk Clown]

You are going to have trouble making sense outta chicks at least 5 days out of each and every month...

Did you hear about the guy who finally figured out women?
He died laughing before he could tell anybody.

[Papewaio]

So understand it from Red's point of view.

ie If Green now makes out with a handsome dude how are you going to feel?

[Centurion1]

So understand it from Red's point of view.

ie If Green now makes out with a handsome dude how are you going to feel?

whoa whoa whoa this comparison implies pi is a handsome young man. I have seen PI, cute little boy is the best I can give you sorry.