Why do nice girls date guys who are jerks?

[LeftEyeNine]

Lately I tried not to be a nice guy and that girl hasn't spoken to me in three weeks, just saying.

You couldn't even do that ? >:|

*force-facepalms himself so the action never ends*

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

You couldn't even do that ? >:|

*force-facepalms himself so the action never ends*

Faceplam + this music

[Husar]

You couldn't even do that ? >:|

*force-facepalms himself so the action never ends*

What? Obviously it worked quite well.

[Andres]

Maybe the jerks aren't really jerks and the "nice guys" are just jealous

It's not my fault that I have a fantastic personality, look good, have an excellent sense of humour, am good at conversations, have a good paying job, refined taste and a superior intellect

Somebody has to be the alpha male

[TinCow]

"Jerks" is the word that shy guys use to describe guys with a lot of self-confidence. Women, in general, prefer confident men. Grow a pair, stop being awkward, and get out there and be social. If you do, you'll find you'll have no difficulty in getting the attention of women. Then all the shy guys can call you a jerk and you won't care because you've got a date.

[Beskar]

Though there is the whole mannerism though, I am going to be brief on the details but this girl called me a puritan once because I didn't make references to my manhood or sex constantly. Then they started dating some one who kept messaging her things about wanting her to drink from a pot of "sperm tea" and cover her buns in "icing" at least 3 times a day. I don't consider myself the one who lost out there.

It isn't the case of a collective grouping of women being assaulted by two sets of guys known as the jerks and the niceguys. There is massive variation in personalities and personality differences.

[TinCow]

It isn't the case of a collective grouping of women being assaulted by two sets of guys known as the jerks and the niceguys. There is massive variation in personalities and personality differences.

This is absolutely true. My post was a generalization, as the OP was itself a generalization.

[Centurion1]

yeah that just sounds like someone with a semen fetish. im imagining someone saying all that with some form of a british accent...... funnier that way lol.

also. clever link i chuckled.

Personally i'm very open sexually and not very shy about it since its something the majority of my peers make a priority in their lives so why not talk about it lol. While I am about as far from a prude as you possible I don't go around saying things like your man beskar....... thats beyond disrespectful it just sounds creepy.....

[Beskar]

Personally i'm very open sexually and not very shy about it since its something the majority of my peers make a priority in their lives so why not talk about it lol. While I am about as far from a prude as you possible I don't go around saying things like your man beskar....... thats beyond disrespectful it just sounds creepy.....

Yup, that is what I don't get. Sure, there is a time and place for sexual remarks but when it is in the middle of the afternoon or at some civilized hour, you don't spam a girls telephone with those sort of comments.

On that note, don't answer a girls phone for her especially when they get sent such messages. I did once accidentally and well, that is how I know those messages were sent.

[Strike For The South]

Though there is the whole mannerism though, I am going to be brief on the details but this girl called me a puritan once because I didn't make references to my manhood or sex constantly. Then they started dating some one who kept messaging her things about wanting her to drink from a pot of "sperm tea" and cover her buns in "icing" at least 3 times a day. I don't consider myself the one who lost out there.

It isn't the case of a collective grouping of women being assaulted by two sets of guys known as the jerks and the niceguys. There is massive variation in personalities and personality differences.

Speak for yourself