cmon... are you that heartless? you would let your own children die possibly (or even remain in captivity with the enemy with the threat of death always present) and not do anything about it when you have a chance, even a remote one to save them?
thats not stupid at all, and i think not only mothers would do it. ok, she is not an ordinary mother she is mother of a king, but she knows that and tried to fight it but then she heard her 2 youngest sons were dead she was just overcome with grief and she did what she did.
im starting to think that something is wrong with you rather than with the characters in grmm :P
(semi-joking...)
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