First of all, even a unemployed household spends money, otherwise it wouldn't be a household, but street beggars (and since they're alive even those spends some money). Second and more important, the nature of the spending would vary. The higher income household would have a more varied spending, thus creating more jobs.
It's really complex stuff, but I'll summarise it like this: The problem of unemployment was about as big now as it was before women entered the workplace, despite a 90% increase of the working population. They UK aren't running around with a 45-50% unemployment aren't they? That's what the 1:1 numbers would give.
Describing it as pocket money isn't exactly helping. And lets see what happens if we make the Rhyfelwyr law. Two single households needs their own income correct? That's stage A. These two have now found eachother and wants to live together. If they move together, then one needs to quit his/her job at the same time as their expenses increases (living 2 together is more expensive). Add having children, an extra expense. Basically, you'll encurage them to live separatly, the child came from "a one night" stand, daddy gets to pay child support and they live together unofficially. Marry? Hell no!!!
To prevent this, you'll need to prevent stage A. And how to that workingly? Gender lines!!
The consumption of the dissappeared wouldn't exist, causing work redundancy -> unemployment. Some unemployed aren't that much related to the market, so they would appear by people growing up.
No, but you're generalizing from a UK perspective, which influences what you're saying.
For example, using your and Philivps words. but in another way than you expected.
You expect higher social mobillity by letting men work for "women middle class pocket money" and at the same time supporting his now unemployed working class wife (the working class women are a larger group than working class men). Of course that will never happen because he can marry upwards in class because of the status of your wife's dad (since the woman no longer works, any class she has related to her work is gone) and there's a huge excess of middle class women.
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