Advice on an akward situation

[edyzmedieval]

I would go berserk literally if anyone would threaten my family.

In this case, do not take any risks. Since you have a gun, you took a first step. Take a look on your children always when they play, you never know what that freak has in mind. Taking revenge on children is the easiest thing to do and the one which will anger the parents the most, so take care on that one. Especially when they are your children.

Don't risk. If you see the guy anywhere near your children, react, but not aggressively. Stand firm by your side and let him subtly understand you'll take action if he keeps doing like that.

Contact your lawyer for advice if you wish, but always keep on a look out.
Don't contact the police yet because he might react and you never know. Keep it quiet, ignore him, smile at him if he looks at you, but that's it. Don't overdo it or else he will react.

And react only when necessary.

[Samurai Waki]

I would go berserk literally if anyone would threaten my family.

In this case, do not take any risks. Since you have a gun, you took a first step. Take a look on your children always when they play, you never know what that freak has in mind. Taking revenge on children is the easiest thing to do and the one which will anger the parents the most, so take care on that one. Especially when they are your children.

Don't risk. If you see the guy anywhere near your children, react, but not aggressively. Stand firm by your side and let him subtly understand you'll take action if he keeps doing like that.

Contact your lawyer for advice if you wish, but always keep on a look out.
Don't contact the police yet because he might react and you never know. Keep it quiet, ignore him, smile at him if he looks at you, but that's it. Don't overdo it or else he will react.

And react only when necessary.

Are you trying to scare the guy? No. If the guy steps foot on his property, gun him down, otherwise let dead dogs lie. The threats, the driving around, it's an instinctual habit that most men have used at one point or another, trying to be the alpha male. Obviously, Ramses isn't going to play that game, and eventually this guy will understand that. I severely doubt this guy has any intention of dragging kids into the game, it's not the right MO, since they tend to stick to the shadows and make their presence as little known as possible.

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

Are you serious about "gunning him down"?

Wow, lads... The poor sod did nothing so far! Just remember that. There's absolutely no reason to get into hysteria. Chances are, he has good reasons to drive around there. Just ignore him, as I stated before, and as Ramses mentioned "mutual friends", ask this friends secretively about the guy. Information is the key.