Yeah, well that's nice and dandy, but what you find offensive is apparently the translation of the word "damn", not "damn" itself.
I don't see how that's relevant to a majorly english-speaking forum. People are using damn in english, and in english, it's probably the less offensive swearing one could think of.
Why should we care about how the translation of "damn" in norwegian, german, spanish, french or russian is perceived?
If people start using "forbanna faen i helvete", yes, then you can give them a warning because it's apparently a quite offensive swearing. But "damn" is not.
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