at some point in ones life, you have to stop worrying perpetually that every minutae of your conduct might be deemed offensive to some other unknown person. it really doesn't matter that much.
and more to the point, i am unwilling to waste my time on a person who has such a fragile psychological makeup as to require absolute deference to his or her insecurities.
and someone who has got nothing more important to achieve than to incessently worry about pleasing other people really needs to find a hobby......... before they suffer a mental breakdown.
it is called integration.
merry xmas. *
* from a non-christian
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