Poll: What do men notice about women?

[Beskar]

ouch.... long hair, hairless face, and if you see my mouth and nose... you'll be conviced that photo was my girl instead of me....

Spoiler Alert, click show to read: 

That was actually my photo everyone that never meet me before often thinks I was a girl when we first meet...

I didn't mean it as an offense to you, but I have to admit, I was originally confused by your femininity in the beginning myself. If you remember one of our first chats where I turned around and I asked "I can't help but wonder, with the name of Cute Wolf and that pink fox creature with hearts..."

I think it is probably why it is 'easier' to spot a homosexual male than a homosexual female. Because of the social stigma, you don't usually see males in a situation as yourself, displaying their femininity, but when they get released from the closet, as it were, they are not bound by the same rules, if anything, they feel empowered and freed, because calling a homosexual, an homosexual isn't much of an 'insult'. It is like calling a piece of chalk, a piece of chalk.

Also, in many ways, this reinforces the 'circle of stigma' ... cruel world.

[Ibrahim]

Girly girly girl-boy.

ok.....

[Fragony]

Asian men often look somewhat feminine to me, apparently Asian women agree with that as they seem to prefer white males.

[Cute Wolf]

Asian men often look somewhat feminine to me, apparently Asian women agree with that as they seem to prefer white males.

and I can't grow that damn... moustache and beard... dammit... genetics...
*. and about that pink fox... well, that was my avatar on several other sites and forums.... actually that pic was my profile pics on TWC

BUT I'M NORMAL HETEROSEXUAL MALE!!!

[Fragony]

BUT I'M NORMAL HETEROSEXUAL MALE!!!

Don't worry, we know that most ladyboys are only in for it for the money ;)

[Cute Wolf]

yucks... and I have this feminine face from birth

you know, when my hair is short (you can look at my FB uncle frag) my face looks completely ridiculous....

[Fragony]

yucks... and I have this feminine face from birth

you know, when my hair is short (you can look at my FB uncle frag) my face looks completely ridiculous....

Look at the bright side, when you are 80 we all naturally assume you are truly wise. Nothing wrong with your face, you look like most Asians.

You are still one out of billions.

[Husar]

Interesting, I didn't know that was you, the painted-in bandana makes it harder to say who it is anyway. Maybe that's why outlaws wore them, so the police would arrest their mother instead...

And I think Fragony is trying to be nice.

[Strike For The South]

What time is it?
How drunk am I?
Am I married?
How long since... you know?

Now these are the questions that need to be asked,

[Togakure]

Diana and I have a disagreement regarding what men notice about women. I, being a man, have my own opinions, and she, being a woman, is the one who is correct.
...

1. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by painted fingernails?
Lol ... no.

2. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by longer nails or fake nails?
No.

3. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by jewelry?
"Attracted" by jewelry? No. It can accentuate a person's physical appearance, but it's pretty much irrelevant in the overall evaluation.

4. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted to painted toenails?
Lol ... no. In fact, if I observe too much energy and attention being given to these kinds of things, it's a big turn-off. It suggests excessive vanity and perhaps, insecurity.

5. Which do you prefer, long or short hair? (in general)
Neither. On the right woman, either. I consider the whole package. Though I have physical preferences/requirements, her personality and lifestyle, and how well they integrate with mine, carry much more weight.

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The first reaction that popped in my head when I read the title of the thread was that: "most are vain." Heh.

I notice and consider mannerisms, behaviors, subtleties of speech, values expressed directly or indirectly through opinions in conversation--over time. These add up eventually to the point where I either decide to pursue, disengage, or be friends. On very rare occasions, it takes very little time. But I've learned the hard way to be especially careful when that happens ....

[Peasant Phill]

I'm attracted by ... non of the above.

Perhaps long curly hair. Yeah, that's my Achilles heel. A petite girl with curly hear and a bit of a tomboy. Yep, than I just can't hold myself but keep it quite.

[Beskar]

I'm attracted by ... non of the above.

Perhaps long curly hair. Yeah, that's my Achilles heel. A petite girl with curly hear and a bit of a tomboy. Yep, than I just can't hold myself but keep it quite.

Hey, are you dating one of my ex's?

[Askthepizzaguy]

http://l.yimg.com/k/omg/us/img/8782_...b7bf9614d8.jpg

Emma Watson's new short haired look:

I approve. It works on her.

[Beskar]

Actually, she looks like this boy I used to know back in highschool. He had feminine facial features.

[Myrddraal]

My two p:

I'm not at all surprised by the responses in this thread. Men don't notice these things, but then you don't want them to notice any one of them. If they notice, it means you've probably overdone it. If you've got it right, it all works on a subconscious level.

There is no doubt in my mind that women can make themselves look more attractive. I know a couple of people who are experts at this form of deception.

[Rhyfelwyr]

I never understood the thing with Emma Watson and people thinking she is attractive; no, she's not. And she looks much worse with short hair.




Or does that just make her look more attractive to ATPG.

[Megas Methuselah]

I approve. It works on her.

No. No, it doesn't work at all.

It's sad. She used to be kind of cute.

[Askthepizzaguy]

Or does that just make her look more attractive to ATPG.

If you'll never understand why Emma Watson is attractive, then the gay innuendo is on you, not me.

[Megas Methuselah]

But she's a bit on the pale side, eh?

[Moros]

Asian men often look somewhat feminine to me, apparently Asian women agree with that as they seem to prefer white males.

Actually Asian women are pretty materialistic. And they think we're all rich...
A shame that they in general are rather unattractive themselves.

[Megas Methuselah]

Man, you guys are racist.

[drone]

http://l.yimg.com/k/omg/us/img/8782_...b7bf9614d8.jpg

Emma Watson's new short haired look:

I approve. It works on her.

Why would a woman think this is a good look? She looks like Janet Leigh in the shower.

[Moros]

Man, you guys are racist.

Of course, everyone is rascist. I haven't met a black, a white or whatever coloured person who isn't.

[Beskar]

Of course, everyone is rascist. I haven't met a black, a white or whatever coloured person who isn't.

Me?

[Rhyfelwyr]

If you'll never understand why Emma Watson is attractive, then the gay innuendo is on you, not me.

Yeah I know it seems like it's just me here, I don't get the craze about her. I just don't see how people could think she's attractive... she has thin lips, a big forehead, smallish eyes. Plus I think she radiates stuck-upness although others seem to see it as intelligence/elegance.

Anyone else here going to back me up?

[Centurio Nixalsverdrus]

I don't consider Emma Watson to be very attractive. And I think that the short hair doesn't work on her. It's definitely too short, and yes, Rhyfelwyr is correct when he mentions her big forehead and tiny face, that give her a kind of unintellectual look.

Edit: Here a good example of what I consider beautiful short hair:

[Moros]

On Emma Watson, well to me it looks as if she wants to attract some Catholic priests. She looks like a young schoolboy...

With long hair, she's not really all that either. She isn't ugly, she's just the average girl. On the length of her forehead, I think it's not that bad. But that's perhaps because I got used to large foreheads thanks to Rihanna's massive one.

[Megas Methuselah]

Centurio, that thing you posted is friggin gorgeous.

[Rhyfelwyr]

Centurio, that thing you posted is friggin gorgeous.

Indeed. Emma Watson looks very, um... manly compared to her (well that's a bit harsh, but if you consider the features I pointed out).

Well, maybe not exactly manly (I still think she is sort of though), maybe more tomboyish. It's like Moros said:

On Emma Watson, well to me it looks as if she wants to attract some Catholic priests. She looks like a young schoolboy...

[Askthepizzaguy]

I don't consider Emma Watson to be very attractive. And I think that the short hair doesn't work on her. It's definitely too short, and yes, Rhyfelwyr is correct when he mentions her big forehead and tiny face, that give her a kind of unintellectual look.

Which is interesting, as her academic achievements include maintaining a straight-A performance on exams even while pursuing her film career with the Harry Potter films, and had her pick of many fine universities, and not because she has money either. I'd also like to mention, her critically-acclaimed and award-winning performances, as the same character over a series of films, is difficult to achieve and not something that you'd find from a dumb-dumb.

I see I am in the minority about her appearance, but that could be due to small sampling. Given the fact that she's an actress and has done modelling, obviously some who are in the business of recognizing beauty agree with my viewpoint.

So, feel free to disagree, but note all that I am not budging from my original statements, and if you don't like it, I'll just add that to my list of things I view PROUDLY and unflinchingly from a minority standpoint, confident that it is indeed I who is correct.