Re: Re : Re: Max Mosley Case
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Originally Posted by
Louis VI the Fat
Besides..four women in uniform, shouting German commands, a bit of spanking...it all tickles Louis' sense of ouh la la....
'Zo you think that you are tough, ja? Now feel how Inge und Eva vill exterminieren your French rezistance' :whip:
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I´ll accompany you in the.... :sweatdrop:
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This is ridiculous, the man has a fetish,so what? nobody was harmed or forced to do anything against their will....so what´s the problem here?
It´s no one's business but his and his wife's if she decides that his behavior is a problem for her...
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Originally Posted by TuffStuffMcGruff
He is talking about a literal stone. He is saying don't kill the person for their actions. He isn't saying rationalize it until their action is a culturally accepted norm.
so I take it you consider that every aspect of your personal life is open for my scrutiny(or anyone else´s) if I choose to do so?
speaking for myself I can say that I have certain "interests" that aren´t exactly "mainstream"....I am in no way ashamed of them......but there is a difference between not being ashamed and not minding it being publicized for everyone to see......and guess what...they are no one´s business but my own.
Re: Re : Re: Max Mosley Case
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Originally Posted by
Ronin
so I take it you consider that every aspect of your personal life is open for my scrutiny(or anyone else´s) if I choose to do so?
speaking for myself I can say that I have certain "interests" that aren´t exactly "mainstream"....I am in no way ashamed of them......but there is a difference between not being ashamed and not minding it being publicized for everyone to see......and guess what...they are no one´s business but my own.
They aren't "open" to everyone - but I recognize my vices and call them like they are. If you find them out I would appreciate your guidance in eliminating them rather than condonement. You can legally do these things but that doesn't mean that they have to be accepted by the hearts of men and women if you are found out. People need to understand that you can have an moral opinion outside of your national legal system. That is a lowest common denominator morality.
I am not calling for him to be legally punished either criminally or civilly - I'm just calling a spade a spade. "my rights end where your nose begins" is a legal guideline - not morality. The rights guaranteed by the state are not the same as those granted by God.
If you don't believe in a superlative right and wrong then I see where you are coming from.
Re: Re : Re: Max Mosley Case
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Originally Posted by
TuffStuffMcGruff
If you don't believe in a superlative right and wrong then I see where you are coming from.
You can certainly believe in right and wrong and not see anything wrong at all with what he's doing.
Come on. Everyone and their grandmother has a fetish or five. And there's nothing wrong with it at all, if you're having fun it's all good.
Re: Re : Re: Max Mosley Case
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Originally Posted by HoreTore
You can certainly believe in right and wrong and not see anything wrong at all with what he's doing.
Come on. Everyone and their grandmother has a fetish or five. And there's nothing wrong with it at all, if you're having fun it's all good.
So sayeth most teens and twenty-somethings. Something changes around 26-30 years old; having kids maybe. Whatever it is, folks get more judgmental of other folks' behavior, and start seeing aberrations/fethishes, etc. as morally deleterious and/or threatening to their child-rearing efforts.
A "dirty old man" may be harmless to others as long as he keeps his "dirty" to himself. But he's still a dirty old man.
Re: Re : Re: Max Mosley Case
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Originally Posted by TuffStuffMcGruff
You can legally do these things but that doesn't mean that they have to be accepted by the hearts of men and women if you are found out.
McGruff, we all know what you mean. Honestly, we do. Lying to your spouse is bad - in most cases, not all. If you love a woman dearly like you apparently love your own - and with every reason, judging by the great pictures you posted on your profile page - then it IS bad to betray her and lie to her. No doubt about it.
But there is lying and lying. Mosley has admitted that he lied to his wife about his sexual activities, and stated that their exposure by the paper was very painful to his family as well as himself. Now something (experience, knowledge of other peoples' affairs) tells me that his wife would have preferred him to keep lying about them and keep them quiet as well, so she wouldn't have to confront this sort of information either in private or in public. And you know what? Despite all this they can still love each other, their sexual attraction may have been over for years or even decades, and they could still be faithful in all matters that are truly important to them. More than a few great minds have lived such lives, and more than a few marriages of convenience have survived because the partners conveniently looked the other way now and then.
What it comes down to, and what I and other posters are trying to convey to you, is that there are obviously criteria for good and bad, but that we can not possibly know if and how they apply in some else's intimate life. It is not you business, nor our business or the public's business to decide what is right or wrong in other peoples' private affairs.