Man, the AI likes to get you all at once huh?

[Havok.]

I usually monitor the other realms ever 5 years and see if I need to add_money "faction", # to any of them or not.

Sometimes it sucks tho because I might add money to a realm that bounces back and within 10 years betrays me..

Adding money through the console window isn't considered a diplomatic action, so that doesn't give points in friendship with them making less likely to attack you, but, giving money through diplomacy might avoid that