Quote Originally Posted by Tuuvi View Post
I would say you should be a little more accepting and try to get to know girls better before you make up your mind if their right for you or not. Because you never know sometimes you can really click with a girl even though you don't have anything in common with her and sometimes you might have more in common with someone than your originally thought.
I do try, but I think that one of the biggest problems is that living in a College town and most of the women I meet are college students. When I get to know them, I generally learn that their priorities in life do not match mine at all. I have met some who I have had a very high opinion of and was attracted to, but they all were married or had boyfriends.
Actually, the woman who I was the most attracted to (on a non-physical level) recently was a female mechanic and dirt-bike racer in her 40s who had suffered an injury to her head and lost her memory. :P I used to work with her while she was going to school to become a certified mechanic again. She was incredibly smart (after losing her memory and not being able to even recognize her children, she became more knowledgeable than most people her age in 1 1/2 years after the accident), pretty (despite never wearing make-up), hard working, very fun to be around, and very down to earth.
Unfortunately for me, it is usually women like her (much older than me) who I am attracted to, and occasionally a few women my age who are always already in a relationship. The more I get to know women my age, the more boring I generally find them. (with few exceptions, usually in a relationship already)


Quote Originally Posted by Papewaio View Post
Just work hard and when you are middle aged you will find someone your age attractive.

Or Go Cougars!

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Personally my wife is intelligent, pretty, mature and eight years younger than me. Thank god she has such poor taste or she wouldn't have gone out with me :)

The reality is whilst age brings most people maturity and wisdom it is quicker with those with an open mind and who experience life. Travel or meet a traveller and you will experience more of life.
lol, I am hoping I can find a wife before I am middle-aged. :P
As far as traveling, the most traveling I have done is my study abroad trip, as I really cannot yet afford to travel a lot. (still got lots of debt I gotta get out from under) The one time I did travel, I found that most of the other travel abroad students as a rule had way too much money to spend, were pretty self-centered with a serious sense of entitlement, and were quite disconnected from the realities of life. If that is maturity, I want no part of it.