So... What's the protocol when you find out via facebook that...

[Rhyfelwyr]

I'm sorry to hear that this has torn you up a bit, philipvs.

When you have a touch of 'oneitis' the best way to get over it is just to remember that there are other girls out there.

I'm gonna seriously advocate that you take ACIN's advice. Hit the gym, lawyer up and delete your facebook account. Absolutely srs.

If you hit the gym and get big girls will notice. And you will become confident because, well, you have something to be confident about. Don't try to look 'ripped' as if you will be hanging out at the beach, we live in the UK so do a big dirty bulk so you look massive with clothes on. I feel so much different from a couple years ago when I was a little 140lbs skinny kid to right now joining the 200lbs+ club.

And delete facebook. What do you gain from it? Probably nothing, you just browse it when you are bored and get hung up on people you used to know hence this thread. All you need is a mobile.

Hopefully you won't be doing anything that means you need to lawyer up, but otherwise it is sound advice.