The opinion of a person is not entirely in their control, no. It is to an extent but if you told me to seriously believe in Jedi and the force today I couldn't just do it, could you? Could you arrange it within a month? Do you think being born in the western world, being taught by parents and teachers who held certain beliefs etc. had no impact on your opinions at all and you formed them all completely independently? If you ever changed your opinion on something fundamental, how long did it take? How often did you discuss someone and they immediately accepted all your points after they held the opposite opinion before?
Nah, no such accusations, I'm calm. I was just wondering why seemingly insult someone so harshly for having a weird opinion which may not entirely be his own fault but not others for things that may not be in their control.
The way you phrased it it sounded a lot more aggressive and more like you just told him that he's dumb and you want him to leave.
Maybe work on your delivery then.
Do you approach your children in class in the same way if they hold some weird belief that e.g. their parents taught them?
Or are all your children perfect in Norway? You're usually the guy who says most of our behavior and beliefs are a result of our circumstances and we don't even know Medya's circumstances, upbringing and education so I would expect there is a reason he believes that and he can be talked out of it. You're absolutely right about the closed mind and if he just leaves because we don't accept his "message" then yes, he has a closed mind and wants to keep it that way.
We've been discussing gun control with certain members here for years now but I haven't seen anyone tell the other side to stop being stupid or leave. It's a different issue but it's not like there has been a huge change of opinions going on either.
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