Future of the European Union

[a completely inoffensive name]

fine, well then, let's see how many Remainer's are comfortable with the idea of Britain being a the 51st state of america. with [all] that entails...

I don't understand the point, if we offered and you had appropriate representation...wouldn't it be a good idea?

How about; we don't assent to common governance. Stop.

But you are already under a common governance with three other countries [no I don't care about the details of verbiage and UK history/structure, it is not relevant to the point].
How is the European Union any less arbitrary than your current political union?