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    Default Re: I am going to commit suicide. Help me find a reason not to.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kush View Post
    Think of the person who likes/loves you the most. What would you committing suicide do to them?
    my grandma. she wil recover eventually. i need an escape from life desperately
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    Quote Originally Posted by John-117 View Post
    my grandma. she wil recover eventually. i need an escape from life desperately
    No, she won't. My biological father committed suicide 22 years ago, and pretty much every day, I think of him, and I feel guilt and pain every time.

    I can't begin to understand where you're at right now, John, but I do remember being 13 and feeling like I had little to live for. Trust me when I say that nothing you're facing now is permanent and it will pass. Death does not. It is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

    Whatever your problems are, no matter how alone you feel, suicide is not an answer. Please seek help through one of the groups listed above.
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    John-117, I am on the phone with Natalie from the National Suicide Prevention Hotline. She would very much like to speak with you and hear what's on your mind. Their number:

    1-800-784-2433

    She would like to see if she can help you in any way. Just ring them up and ask for Natalie; I've given her the most brief outline based on what you have posted here.

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    Eh, I don't know if that was such a good idea. If I were John, that post would scare me off.

    It makes you feel like you're obliged to speak to them, and then you get nervous and chicken out.

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    I'm not trying to freak anybody out, I just want to move this discussion to a place where people know what they're doing. We all mean well, and I'm honored to see so many Orgahs trying to respond productively, but at the end of the day we're amateurs. I'd like for John-117 to speak to someone who actually knows what she's talking about.

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    Default Re: I am going to commit suicide. Help me find a reason not to.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lemur View Post
    I'm not trying to freak anybody out, I just want to move this discussion to a place where people know what they're doing. We all mean well, and I'm honored to see so many Orgahs trying to respond productively, but at the end of the day we're amateurs. I'd like for John-117 to speak to someone who actually knows what she's talking about.
    I agree. You guys mean well, but it aint gunna help.

    I'm not claiming to be an expert but I've stopped two people from doing it in the last 6 months. Not me alone, but it helps.

    I'm gunna PM him. Take this afternoon off work and see if I can talk to him.
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